ABB's drinking tip of the day 09:31 - Apr 30 with 5331 views | artsbossbeard | Don't be Billy big bollox in regard to 2 for 1 cocktails and expect to feel great in the morning. My Sunday lunchtime session is currently in doubt. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 09:35 - Apr 30 with 4589 views | Herbivore | What you need is a hair of the dog, the sooner the better. If ever I go out for two for one cocktails I drink them like water, just can't help myself. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 09:38 - Apr 30 with 4584 views | Warkystache |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 09:35 - Apr 30 by Herbivore | What you need is a hair of the dog, the sooner the better. If ever I go out for two for one cocktails I drink them like water, just can't help myself. |
That's because they're watered down. Most bars/pubs who do two for one cocktails water them down with fruit juices or Coke. Or use cheap spirits. I used to love After Office Hours in Colchester for 241 Margaritas, until I noticed they used a cheaper Tequila and loads of sugar syrup with the lemon juice. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 09:44 - Apr 30 with 4563 views | RoyKeanesDog |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 09:38 - Apr 30 by Warkystache | That's because they're watered down. Most bars/pubs who do two for one cocktails water them down with fruit juices or Coke. Or use cheap spirits. I used to love After Office Hours in Colchester for 241 Margaritas, until I noticed they used a cheaper Tequila and loads of sugar syrup with the lemon juice. |
They'd use cheap spirits, but I doubt they would do half measures. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 10:31 - Apr 30 with 4497 views | Herbivore |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 09:44 - Apr 30 by RoyKeanesDog | They'd use cheap spirits, but I doubt they would do half measures. |
Yeah, this. They make them in front of you and they do use cheap spirits but they don't hold back on the measures. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 11:31 - Apr 30 with 4424 views | Lord_Lucan | Mother feels fine although I guess you had more than her. You did look very gay though drinking those stupid things. I had just the one and it lasted about 2 seconds so I went on their naff lager. No ales or red wine available, that's the problem with these cocktail type bars. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 12:12 - Apr 30 with 4352 views | Lord_Lucan |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 09:44 - Apr 30 by RoyKeanesDog | They'd use cheap spirits, but I doubt they would do half measures. |
But they aren't well loaded are they. The one I had last night tasted like a fruit juice. All the chavs see loads of fluids being sprayed in by the cocktail cock and think it's spirits when it's just flavoured syrup. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 12:34 - Apr 30 with 4323 views | RoyKeanesDog |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 12:12 - Apr 30 by Lord_Lucan | But they aren't well loaded are they. The one I had last night tasted like a fruit juice. All the chavs see loads of fluids being sprayed in by the cocktail cock and think it's spirits when it's just flavoured syrup. |
Of course they are the lowest quality 'cocktail' you could possibly imagine. Anything called the 'Turquoise Tortoise' isn't going to attract the highest class of clientele. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 13:13 - Apr 30 with 4276 views | artsbossbeard |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 12:34 - Apr 30 by RoyKeanesDog | Of course they are the lowest quality 'cocktail' you could possibly imagine. Anything called the 'Turquoise Tortoise' isn't going to attract the highest class of clientele. |
My downfall was a Japanese slipper or 3 | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 16:22 - Apr 30 with 4187 views | colchesterchris |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 11:31 - Apr 30 by Lord_Lucan | Mother feels fine although I guess you had more than her. You did look very gay though drinking those stupid things. I had just the one and it lasted about 2 seconds so I went on their naff lager. No ales or red wine available, that's the problem with these cocktail type bars. |
Nothing like a casual bit of homophobia on a Sunday afternoon... | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 18:09 - Apr 30 with 4134 views | Lord_Lucan |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 16:22 - Apr 30 by colchesterchris | Nothing like a casual bit of homophobia on a Sunday afternoon... |
I wouldn't call it homophobia, stereotyping maybe. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 18:57 - Apr 30 with 4091 views | J2BLUE |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 16:22 - Apr 30 by colchesterchris | Nothing like a casual bit of homophobia on a Sunday afternoon... |
You're the one thinking 'looking gay' is a bad thing. Homophobe. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 19:55 - Apr 30 with 4062 views | colchesterchris |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 18:57 - Apr 30 by J2BLUE | You're the one thinking 'looking gay' is a bad thing. Homophobe. |
Nonsense...I know LL wasn't making a deliberately anti-gay point, it's just a reminded of how deep rooted some of our language is. "You did look very gay though drinking those stupid things" - it's hardly a compliment unless stupid is now a positive? You're better than that logic :) In all seriousness though, It's comments like that that make it harder for those that don't fit that inaccurate stereotype to feel brave enough to come out, and therefore keep these things bottled up inside. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 19:58 - Apr 30 with 4053 views | colchesterchris |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 18:09 - Apr 30 by Lord_Lucan | I wouldn't call it homophobia, stereotyping maybe. |
Not for a minute suggesting you were/are homophobic. Semantics though, as whilst you weren't being homophobic, and were just stereotyping, the stereotype itself can be a form of homophobia. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 20:03 - Apr 30 with 4038 views | J2BLUE |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 19:55 - Apr 30 by colchesterchris | Nonsense...I know LL wasn't making a deliberately anti-gay point, it's just a reminded of how deep rooted some of our language is. "You did look very gay though drinking those stupid things" - it's hardly a compliment unless stupid is now a positive? You're better than that logic :) In all seriousness though, It's comments like that that make it harder for those that don't fit that inaccurate stereotype to feel brave enough to come out, and therefore keep these things bottled up inside. |
I'm all for tolerance, I just don't think Lucan's comment was homophobic at all. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 20:07 - Apr 30 with 4025 views | colchesterchris |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 20:03 - Apr 30 by J2BLUE | I'm all for tolerance, I just don't think Lucan's comment was homophobic at all. |
So what is it then, to "look gay"? | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 08:40 - May 1 with 3889 views | bluebud |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 19:55 - Apr 30 by colchesterchris | Nonsense...I know LL wasn't making a deliberately anti-gay point, it's just a reminded of how deep rooted some of our language is. "You did look very gay though drinking those stupid things" - it's hardly a compliment unless stupid is now a positive? You're better than that logic :) In all seriousness though, It's comments like that that make it harder for those that don't fit that inaccurate stereotype to feel brave enough to come out, and therefore keep these things bottled up inside. |
"In all seriousness though, It's comments like that that make it harder for those that don't fit that inaccurate stereotype to feel brave enough to come out, and therefore keep these things bottled up inside." No it isn't. It's the sort of harmless comment that virtue signallers like you will take and use to boost their own virtue points on a message board like this. With all the advances in our society and culture round LGBT members inc gay marriage then I don't believe it's the sort of comment that would prevent someone from coming out......I didn't even notice it, in fact the comment had been there for three hours in the afternoon......you're the only one who did (pretended to care). [Post edited 1 May 2017 8:42]
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 09:42 - May 1 with 3840 views | Lord_Lucan |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 08:40 - May 1 by bluebud | "In all seriousness though, It's comments like that that make it harder for those that don't fit that inaccurate stereotype to feel brave enough to come out, and therefore keep these things bottled up inside." No it isn't. It's the sort of harmless comment that virtue signallers like you will take and use to boost their own virtue points on a message board like this. With all the advances in our society and culture round LGBT members inc gay marriage then I don't believe it's the sort of comment that would prevent someone from coming out......I didn't even notice it, in fact the comment had been there for three hours in the afternoon......you're the only one who did (pretended to care). [Post edited 1 May 2017 8:42]
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I must admit I was taken aback with the reply but decided not to reply further in case it fuelled the fire. It is too easy to become offended these days and once we lose the ability to rip the p1ss out of each other we are doomed. My old local had it's fair amount of gay people in there due to it having a gay landlord, many a happy hour was spent having a laugh and winding each other up. Surely it's better to be that way and treat everyone as equal. Ditto blacks, asians etc. | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 10:59 - May 1 with 3793 views | colchesterchris |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 08:40 - May 1 by bluebud | "In all seriousness though, It's comments like that that make it harder for those that don't fit that inaccurate stereotype to feel brave enough to come out, and therefore keep these things bottled up inside." No it isn't. It's the sort of harmless comment that virtue signallers like you will take and use to boost their own virtue points on a message board like this. With all the advances in our society and culture round LGBT members inc gay marriage then I don't believe it's the sort of comment that would prevent someone from coming out......I didn't even notice it, in fact the comment had been there for three hours in the afternoon......you're the only one who did (pretended to care). [Post edited 1 May 2017 8:42]
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This isn't a virtue signalling point. If you demean any opinion that someone holds in support of a particular community as virtue signalling that's just lazy. My message history hardly demonstrates an urge to comment/achieve these points you're talking about. This is just an area that through work in the past, I have a passionate view on. See below, I'm not calling Lucan a homophobe, my dad would probably use the same language and its institutionalised to an extent. The language is homophobic though. Challenge the views as much as you like, but not my right/motivations for having them. https://www.stonewall.org.uk/sites/default/files/tackling_homophobic_language_-_ | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 11:45 - May 1 with 3753 views | J2BLUE |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 20:07 - Apr 30 by colchesterchris | So what is it then, to "look gay"? |
Sorry, I found something better to do last night than debate this I think Lucan has answered this point. Are we going to have a complete lack of tolerance for anything like this or are we going to treat everyone equally which includes a gentle bit of piss taking? | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 11:47 - May 1 with 3750 views | bluebud |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 10:59 - May 1 by colchesterchris | This isn't a virtue signalling point. If you demean any opinion that someone holds in support of a particular community as virtue signalling that's just lazy. My message history hardly demonstrates an urge to comment/achieve these points you're talking about. This is just an area that through work in the past, I have a passionate view on. See below, I'm not calling Lucan a homophobe, my dad would probably use the same language and its institutionalised to an extent. The language is homophobic though. Challenge the views as much as you like, but not my right/motivations for having them. https://www.stonewall.org.uk/sites/default/files/tackling_homophobic_language_-_ |
Thanks, after reading your post and thinking about it I've came to the conclusion that i'm still absolutely right. This was a thread about drinks and people drinking too much the night before. No gay people have agreed with you in the near twenty hours the threads been up. I never said you did call Lucan anything...he admittedly said he was taken aback by your post......absolutely nobody else did. Im not saying any points are virtue signalling in particular.........i'm saying that are. | | | |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 11:52 - May 1 with 3739 views | colchesterchris |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 11:47 - May 1 by bluebud | Thanks, after reading your post and thinking about it I've came to the conclusion that i'm still absolutely right. This was a thread about drinks and people drinking too much the night before. No gay people have agreed with you in the near twenty hours the threads been up. I never said you did call Lucan anything...he admittedly said he was taken aback by your post......absolutely nobody else did. Im not saying any points are virtue signalling in particular.........i'm saying that are. |
Why would it have to be gay people that agree with me? It's just instantly divisive in a them/us way. [Post edited 1 May 2017 11:52]
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 11:54 - May 1 with 3732 views | colchesterchris |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 11:47 - May 1 by bluebud | Thanks, after reading your post and thinking about it I've came to the conclusion that i'm still absolutely right. This was a thread about drinks and people drinking too much the night before. No gay people have agreed with you in the near twenty hours the threads been up. I never said you did call Lucan anything...he admittedly said he was taken aback by your post......absolutely nobody else did. Im not saying any points are virtue signalling in particular.........i'm saying that are. |
I'm also guessing you didn't take any time to read the report I linked to? Or decided that the views didn't match your own therefore it wasn't worth commenting on? | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 12:09 - May 1 with 3706 views | colchesterchris |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 11:47 - May 1 by bluebud | Thanks, after reading your post and thinking about it I've came to the conclusion that i'm still absolutely right. This was a thread about drinks and people drinking too much the night before. No gay people have agreed with you in the near twenty hours the threads been up. I never said you did call Lucan anything...he admittedly said he was taken aback by your post......absolutely nobody else did. Im not saying any points are virtue signalling in particular.........i'm saying that are. |
You are right about this not being a thread about that though, so I will take it elsewhere rather than hijacking this thread any more! | |
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ABB's drinking tip of the day on 13:24 - May 1 with 3606 views | Archer4721 |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 20:07 - Apr 30 by colchesterchris | So what is it then, to "look gay"? |
light-hearted and carefree. "Nan had a gay disposition and a very pretty face" synonyms: cheerful, cheery, merry, jolly, light-hearted, mirthful, jovial, glad, happy, bright, in good spirits, in high spirits, joyful, elated, exuberant, animated, lively, sprightly, vivacious, buoyant, bouncy, bubbly, perky, effervescent, playful, frolicsome; | | | |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 16:50 - May 1 with 3490 views | Benters |
ABB's drinking tip of the day on 13:24 - May 1 by Archer4721 | light-hearted and carefree. "Nan had a gay disposition and a very pretty face" synonyms: cheerful, cheery, merry, jolly, light-hearted, mirthful, jovial, glad, happy, bright, in good spirits, in high spirits, joyful, elated, exuberant, animated, lively, sprightly, vivacious, buoyant, bouncy, bubbly, perky, effervescent, playful, frolicsome; |
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