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Used to see this girl for a bit 15:32 - Oct 18 with 26430 viewsJoey_Joe_Joe_Junior

We had a bit of a thing but didn't work out, well she blew it off, that was about a year ago. She since had relationship with a dude (in fact that probably was why we never worked out), they moved in together but from what I hear it's fell apart and they've split. During those months we became mates and hung out now and then but my overall interest hasn't really waived. I kept my distance and explored other opportunities.

A real friend would be give her space for a while and show a sympathetic ear, correct? Or do you see the single status and try and swoop! Hot property this one, can't imagine it staying on the market long if you get me.
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Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:42 - Jan 19 with 2744 viewsunbelievablue

Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:36 - Jan 19 by HarryWright

HAD to resurrect this thread, can someone help I've got the same thing going on?

This girl blew it off with me and started seeing a guy but they are now over, I still like her and grew quite close as friends but I want more. I've been on other dates and kept my distance as she knows but I wonder whether I should go for it again now. Any help?
[Post edited 19 Jan 2018 16:46]


Is she with the other bloke? If so, don't make a move, talk to her.

If she's not with the other bloke, propose.

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Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:44 - Jan 19 with 2734 viewsHarryWright

Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:42 - Jan 19 by unbelievablue

Is she with the other bloke? If so, don't make a move, talk to her.

If she's not with the other bloke, propose.


Oh no forgot to mention it didn't work out with them
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Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:44 - Jan 19 with 2726 viewsBrixtonBlue

Used to see this girl for a bit on 23:15 - Oct 18 by Superfrans

“It”....

Might be the problem right there.


Exactly what I was about to post.

I bet Bloots will downarrow this.
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Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:54 - Jan 19 with 2690 viewscaught-in-limbo

Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:36 - Jan 19 by HarryWright

HAD to resurrect this thread, can someone help I've got the same thing going on?

This girl blew it off with me and started seeing a guy but they are now over, I still like her and grew quite close as friends but I want more. I've been on other dates and kept my distance as she knows but I wonder whether I should go for it again now. Any help?
[Post edited 19 Jan 2018 16:46]


She seems to have a thing for TWTD posters, first JJJJ and now you.

Did she leave you for someone from the news comments section?

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Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:56 - Jan 19 with 2681 viewsPJH

Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:44 - Jan 19 by BrixtonBlue

Exactly what I was about to post.


Although 3 months later.
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Used to see this girl for a bit on 17:58 - Jan 19 with 2588 viewsBrixtonBlue

Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:56 - Jan 19 by PJH

Although 3 months later.


Yeah, I'm a slow typer.

I bet Bloots will downarrow this.
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Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:36 - Jan 19 by HarryWright

HAD to resurrect this thread, can someone help I've got the same thing going on?

This girl blew it off with me and started seeing a guy but they are now over, I still like her and grew quite close as friends but I want more. I've been on other dates and kept my distance as she knows but I wonder whether I should go for it again now. Any help?
[Post edited 19 Jan 2018 16:46]


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Used to see this girl for a bit on 18:27 - Jan 19 with 2546 viewsRyorry

Used to see this girl for a bit on 15:56 - Oct 18 by Reuser_is_God

You really need to ask?

No wonder she blew it off a year ago.

#Melt


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Used to see this girl for a bit on 18:31 - Jan 19 with 2545 viewsnoggin

Treat her to Taco Bell.

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Used to see this girl for a bit on 18:50 - Jan 19 with 2522 viewsFrowsyArmLarry

Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:44 - Jan 19 by HarryWright

Oh no forgot to mention it didn't work out with them


Unless she’s obviously flirting with you she’s got no interest I’m afraid. You should never go back anyway
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Used to see this girl for a bit on 19:08 - Jan 19 with 2494 viewsstickymockwell

Used to see this girl for a bit on 16:36 - Jan 19 by HarryWright

HAD to resurrect this thread, can someone help I've got the same thing going on?

This girl blew it off with me and started seeing a guy but they are now over, I still like her and grew quite close as friends but I want more. I've been on other dates and kept my distance as she knows but I wonder whether I should go for it again now. Any help?
[Post edited 19 Jan 2018 16:46]


She dumped you for someone else!!! Nuff said bro. Find another girl that you like and you will never have the issue that she preferred another.

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Used to see this girl for a bit on 19:15 - Jan 19 with 2482 viewsGeoffSentence

Used to see this girl for a bit on 18:14 - Oct 18 by caught-in-limbo

She'll probably give you a call if she's interested.


Unless she's thinking 'joe_joey_jo_jo_joey_jo will give me a call if he's interested'

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Used to see this girl for a bit on 19:47 - Jan 19 with 2450 viewsbluejake78

Used to see this girl for a bit on 19:15 - Jan 19 by GeoffSentence

Unless she's thinking 'joe_joey_jo_jo_joey_jo will give me a call if he's interested'


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Used to see this girl for a bit on 08:03 - Jan 20 with 2289 viewsSE1blue

Am always amazed how one woman can blind a man to the many, many other amazing
women there are in the world.

This is not meant to sound patronising as I’ve been there myself many years ago but looking back my advice is give up and move on. Better still, move completely out of her social circle, space and mindset. It’s clearly not working out for you at the moment and (hate to say it) most likely never will.

I chose to move and work abroad for a bit to get out of a similar situation - I was in my twenties so had few ties - and it was the healthiest thing to do. A change of scene and women makes you realise there are other beautiful, amusing and engaging ladies out there who want to return your feelings in equal measure. And these women won’t waste your time keeping you hanging on until they find something better.

All that said, the night before I left to go away I bedded the lady I had been hung up on and that gave me the closure I needed, and a feeling of having the last laugh... :)

Good luck whatever you decide.

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