| This probably isn't the best place but I need to vent 19:52 - Jun 6 with 5438 views | ACP84 |
My wife has just had her 3rd miscarriage in 5 years.
I'm not angry at her at all so vent is probably not the right word and I don't blame her at all, i know it's not her fault.
The entire family have rallied around her and supported her and it feels like i'm just the afterthought - everyone has asked her how she is feeling which is a ridiculous question.
But that being said, nobody has asked me how i'm feeling or how i am coping with it, it's like a bereavement going from elated and walking on air to come crashing down to the ground again.
Sorry for posting it on here, this is the only football forum where i feel like i'm around friends - i don't post much but i come on here every day for a read and i know what a top bunch of people we have on here.
Again, sorry, i just needed to get it out. X |  | | |  |
| This probably isn't the best place but I need to vent on 19:35 - Jun 7 with 843 views | PrideOfTheEast |
| This probably isn't the best place but I need to vent on 18:31 - Jun 7 by textbackup |
Mate I feel your pain, not because we’ve had the same situation but my wife had terrible Post natal depression, you do all you can to support, get a fck loaf of sht, and not a single dr or anyone says ‘you ok tho mate?!’
When all my mates have since had kids I make sure I take them aside to chat with them, such a hard one for the blokes |
Hats off to you mate. Very decent. |  | | |
| This probably isn't the best place but I need to vent on 20:46 - Jun 30 with 724 views | ACP84 |
I just want to say a huge thank you to everyone who has been in touch via PM and this post with advice.
Its been a great help - i don't really open up much and I just blurted it all out to the wife last week and she didn't even know i was struggling with it all.
We've had a massive heart to heart and we're facing it head on together now.
Thank you all for helping me deal with all this.
ACP x | | | |
| This probably isn't the best place but I need to vent on 23:22 - Jun 30 with 672 views | hoppy |
| This probably isn't the best place but I need to vent on 20:46 - Jun 30 by ACP84 |
I just want to say a huge thank you to everyone who has been in touch via PM and this post with advice.
Its been a great help - i don't really open up much and I just blurted it all out to the wife last week and she didn't even know i was struggling with it all.
We've had a massive heart to heart and we're facing it head on together now.
Thank you all for helping me deal with all this.
ACP x |
Good to hear you’ve been able to have a good talk about it with her. Please do message and let us know if you need someone else to talk to at all though, just in case it’s needed - I’d be always happy to let you sound off at, if it would help. |  |
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| This probably isn't the best place but I need to vent on 23:40 - Jun 30 with 661 views | ACP84 |
| This probably isn't the best place but I need to vent on 23:22 - Jun 30 by hoppy |
Good to hear you’ve been able to have a good talk about it with her. Please do message and let us know if you need someone else to talk to at all though, just in case it’s needed - I’d be always happy to let you sound off at, if it would help. |
Cheers Hoppy - i'll bear it in mind | | | |
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