| cussed by a littleun 14:08 - May 11 with 1898 views | giant_stow |
My boy had a play mate over after school yesterday, who on enterring thre house, had a good look around and told us that our house is:
tiny
Has a crap garden
Looks cheap.
This is getting to me more than it should, so this post is way of letting it go. Thank you for reading.
(The little sh1t!) |  |
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| cussed by a littleun on 15:22 - May 11 with 454 views | Herbivore |
| cussed by a littleun on 15:10 - May 11 by bluelagos |
Serious reply.
Sounds like he could be aspergery. If the kid is otherwise polite, then "the brat" scenario is a tad unfair. He's just a kid that says it how he sees it and doesn't have the ability to understand the subtle nuances / impact of his directness.
As he gets older, sure he'll learn, but I always think people with that level of directness and honesty can be great to hear things from. The alternative is people sugar coating things which sometimes isn't what you need to hear.
Sometimes hearing the truth hurts, but is of great benefit. Am sure his reaction was as simple as your house isn't as big as what he's used to. No big wahala Ulla. |
I've never really liked you. |  |
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| cussed by a littleun on 15:30 - May 11 with 445 views | giant_stow |
| cussed by a littleun on 15:10 - May 11 by bluelagos |
Serious reply.
Sounds like he could be aspergery. If the kid is otherwise polite, then "the brat" scenario is a tad unfair. He's just a kid that says it how he sees it and doesn't have the ability to understand the subtle nuances / impact of his directness.
As he gets older, sure he'll learn, but I always think people with that level of directness and honesty can be great to hear things from. The alternative is people sugar coating things which sometimes isn't what you need to hear.
Sometimes hearing the truth hurts, but is of great benefit. Am sure his reaction was as simple as your house isn't as big as what he's used to. No big wahala Ulla. |
You're a wise man lagos. As it happens I've walked past his house and it is big! | |
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| cussed by a littleun on 15:41 - May 11 with 436 views | bluelagos |
| cussed by a littleun on 15:22 - May 11 by Herbivore |
I've never really liked you. |
:-)
You're not alone Herby. My directness is a bit of a marmite thing! |  |
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| cussed by a littleun on 15:46 - May 11 with 424 views | bluelagos |
| cussed by a littleun on 15:30 - May 11 by giant_stow |
You're a wise man lagos. As it happens I've walked past his house and it is big! |
Time spent teaching kids - picked up a few things :-)
We were well briefed on teaching kids with Aspergers and/or autism. What annoys me is how we bend over backwards to helps kids with learning difficulties - the minute they become 18, they are suddenly "a pain in the arse" and we lose all sympathy.
Society has a lot to learn about dealing with all our differences. | |
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| cussed by a littleun on 15:57 - May 11 with 418 views | Herbivore |
| cussed by a littleun on 15:41 - May 11 by bluelagos |
:-)
You're not alone Herby. My directness is a bit of a marmite thing! |
Just messing, you're a good egg (one not cooked by J2). | |
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| cussed by a littleun on 16:03 - May 11 with 408 views | jeera |
| cussed by a littleun on 15:10 - May 11 by bluelagos |
Serious reply.
Sounds like he could be aspergery. If the kid is otherwise polite, then "the brat" scenario is a tad unfair. He's just a kid that says it how he sees it and doesn't have the ability to understand the subtle nuances / impact of his directness.
As he gets older, sure he'll learn, but I always think people with that level of directness and honesty can be great to hear things from. The alternative is people sugar coating things which sometimes isn't what you need to hear.
Sometimes hearing the truth hurts, but is of great benefit. Am sure his reaction was as simple as your house isn't as big as what he's used to. No big wahala Ulla. |
On the other hand he could just be a prick. |  |
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| cussed by a littleun on 16:54 - May 11 with 356 views | farkenhell |
| cussed by a littleun on 15:10 - May 11 by bluelagos |
Serious reply.
Sounds like he could be aspergery. If the kid is otherwise polite, then "the brat" scenario is a tad unfair. He's just a kid that says it how he sees it and doesn't have the ability to understand the subtle nuances / impact of his directness.
As he gets older, sure he'll learn, but I always think people with that level of directness and honesty can be great to hear things from. The alternative is people sugar coating things which sometimes isn't what you need to hear.
Sometimes hearing the truth hurts, but is of great benefit. Am sure his reaction was as simple as your house isn't as big as what he's used to. No big wahala Ulla. |
You should hear what he says about you! |  | | |
| cussed by a littleun on 07:39 - May 12 with 281 views | hoppy |
| cussed by a littleun on 16:03 - May 11 by jeera |
On the other hand he could just be a prick. |
Bit harsh on Ullaa, even if he does support Norwich. [Post edited 12 May 2021 7:40]
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