| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation 16:52 - Feb 14 with 2452 views | Joey_Joe_Joe_Junior |
Is there a chance that the reason you are attracted to people personality wise actually becomes the downfall of relationships? I am just talking from some recent personal experience.
I only try and date hot women because I am shallow. However, even good looking ones obviously have completely different traits. Organized women that are so scheduled and have their life all planned out and together bore the hell out of me. I like independent, spontaneous, free spirited girls. As I consider that my kind of personality as well, for better or for worse. That is what makes it really fun at the start. However, if you end up falling for these girls four or so months down the line the reason you were attracted to them makes the relationship negative.
Even though I was never scared of this latest one being unfaithful, she liked to go out with her friends a lot, meet new friends, party at gigs that kind of stuff. Stuff that I like doing also but that is always going to be hard to tie down.However, the idea of meeting organized boring women however fit seems unappealing to me. I know most of you are boring computer geeks living in the sticks but let me know if you have any cool insight on this.
Is there a game tonight or something?
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:00 - Feb 14 with 2059 views | caught-in-limbo |
We can all be shallow.
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:02 - Feb 14 with 2043 views | GlasgowBlue |
I'm more of a boobs man myself. |  |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:03 - Feb 14 with 2039 views | Joey_Joe_Joe_Junior |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:02 - Feb 14 by GlasgowBlue |
I'm more of a boobs man myself. |
Oh don't worry they're not even in the conversation unless they're proper fit. | | | |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:04 - Feb 14 with 2033 views | clive_baker |
How embarrassing, you've logged into TWTD instead of Mumsnet. Hate it when I do that, so awkward. |  |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:06 - Feb 14 with 2016 views | Reuser_is_God |
Was she a good shag? |  |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:07 - Feb 14 with 2010 views | J2BLUE |
There isn't a straight choice between those two. Find someone in between.
Personality is much more important to me than looks. Everyone looking for a girl wants a pretty girl but personality much more important IMO. |  |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:08 - Feb 14 with 1995 views | Reuser_is_God |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:07 - Feb 14 by J2BLUE |
There isn't a straight choice between those two. Find someone in between.
Personality is much more important to me than looks. Everyone looking for a girl wants a pretty girl but personality much more important IMO. |
You got a girlfriend J2?
Surely you can find a balance between the 2? [Post edited 14 Feb 2017 17:10]
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:10 - Feb 14 with 1971 views | J2BLUE |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:08 - Feb 14 by Reuser_is_God |
You got a girlfriend J2?
Surely you can find a balance between the 2? [Post edited 14 Feb 2017 17:10]
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Nah. I thought you had to post about it 37 times a week if you do? | |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:11 - Feb 14 with 1955 views | Reuser_is_God |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:10 - Feb 14 by J2BLUE |
Nah. I thought you had to post about it 37 times a week if you do? |
I dunno, ask Rommy I mean Dolly. | |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:13 - Feb 14 with 1929 views | GlasgowBlue |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:07 - Feb 14 by J2BLUE |
There isn't a straight choice between those two. Find someone in between.
Personality is much more important to me than looks. Everyone looking for a girl wants a pretty girl but personality much more important IMO. |
"Personality is much more important to me than looks"
Don't be so bloody silly. | |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:14 - Feb 14 with 1921 views | Reuser_is_God |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:13 - Feb 14 by GlasgowBlue |
"Personality is much more important to me than looks"
Don't be so bloody silly. |
This.
No one likes a dog. | |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:15 - Feb 14 with 1914 views | hoppy |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:08 - Feb 14 by Reuser_is_God |
You got a girlfriend J2?
Surely you can find a balance between the 2? [Post edited 14 Feb 2017 17:10]
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Maybe they don't speak human... |  |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:16 - Feb 14 with 1899 views | RoyKeanesDog |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:14 - Feb 14 by Reuser_is_God |
This.
No one likes a dog. |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:20 - Feb 14 with 1870 views | J2BLUE |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:15 - Feb 14 by hoppy |
Maybe they don't speak human... |
You must be an absolute stunner mate... | |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:24 - Feb 14 with 1851 views | theblueginger |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:11 - Feb 14 by Reuser_is_God |
I dunno, ask Rommy I mean Dolly. |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:44 - Feb 14 with 1795 views | Lord_Lucan |
Love is blind and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Having a bird that likes to stay at home and clean round the house is not a problem as long as they don't mind you going out all night and coming home messing it up again.
You seem to be in a hole JJJ. You are young, you have a very good job, you visit new cities and countries on a weekly basis, your company actually encourages you to go and get p1ssed with colleagues and clients.
Try staying single for a while and enjoy it. |  |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:53 - Feb 14 with 1757 views | hoppy |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:20 - Feb 14 by J2BLUE |
You must be an absolute stunner mate... |
Haha... of course. KJ has done alright for herself, obviously...
[insert definite tongue in cheek smiley] | |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 18:00 - Feb 14 with 1690 views | taximan |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:06 - Feb 14 by Reuser_is_God |
Was she a good shag? |
"good" as in filthy ? | | | |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 18:02 - Feb 14 with 1677 views | Fixed_It |
You are 100% right. About the shallow bit at least. |  |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 18:15 - Feb 14 with 1620 views | NewcyBlue |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:44 - Feb 14 by Lord_Lucan |
Love is blind and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Having a bird that likes to stay at home and clean round the house is not a problem as long as they don't mind you going out all night and coming home messing it up again.
You seem to be in a hole JJJ. You are young, you have a very good job, you visit new cities and countries on a weekly basis, your company actually encourages you to go and get p1ssed with colleagues and clients.
Try staying single for a while and enjoy it. |
You mean Beauty is in the eye of the beerholder don't you?! |  |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 18:16 - Feb 14 with 1615 views | itfcjoe |
I'd guess in your specific case - finding someone who is that much of a free spirit is going to most likely end pad but I wouldn't give up on that because of it.
I personally find (because of my personality) it's important for missus to be independent, but also to share similar interest - and allow me to do what I want to do. A tough balance to find, but worth the wait when you do.
Guess travelling about a lot doesn't really work without a more stay at home missus though or it becomes too much [Post edited 14 Feb 2017 18:17]
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 18:30 - Feb 14 with 1557 views | Dolly2.0 |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:11 - Feb 14 by Reuser_is_God |
I dunno, ask Rommy I mean Dolly. |
I don't post about the missus anymore than any one of the other million "missus X and I were doing this..." posts. It's just I didn't before and people picked up on it.
In answer to the OP, my missus is like the female version of me (minus the beard). Seems to work, that.
Luckily she has the looks as well as the daft childlike personality (I only have the second bit).
I think where you're going wrong is focusing on the hotness. |  |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 18:42 - Feb 14 with 1489 views | Cotty |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:04 - Feb 14 by clive_baker |
How embarrassing, you've logged into TWTD instead of Mumsnet. Hate it when I do that, so awkward. |
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| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 21:51 - Feb 14 with 1315 views | Joey_Joe_Joe_Junior |
| It's valentines day so this seems appropriate conversation on 17:44 - Feb 14 by Lord_Lucan |
Love is blind and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Having a bird that likes to stay at home and clean round the house is not a problem as long as they don't mind you going out all night and coming home messing it up again.
You seem to be in a hole JJJ. You are young, you have a very good job, you visit new cities and countries on a weekly basis, your company actually encourages you to go and get p1ssed with colleagues and clients.
Try staying single for a while and enjoy it. |
I am enjoying it but this one was the future, well I thought so anyway. | | | |
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