| A serious subject (possibly NSFW) 10:27 - Nov 18 with 445 views | ArnoldMoorhen |
An article from The Guardian on the dangers of imitating choking seen in violent porn.
https://www.theguardian.com/so
And the companion piece about how common it is:
https://www.theguardian.com/so
While there may be experienced members of the BDSM community who will argue against "Kink shaming", I would particularly urge those who have been choked by a partner, or who are thinking of introducing this element of "play", to read these articles.
It's dangerous, and often a sign of an abusive power dynamic in a relationship.
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| A serious subject (possibly NSFW) on 10:56 - Nov 18 with 381 views | baxterbasics |
Once something becomes so prolific in porn, it will quickly move from being a niche practice 'enjoyed' by mostly responsible and experienced adults, to something every other young man thinks is legit sex play and just as many young women will think is expected, or at least will have to resist pressure to do. That's the problem. Which then amplifies the problem of health and safety.
Edit - just to add my final point, I feel the real problem is the saturation and accessibility of pornography now. Even with the recent legislation forcing age checks. It doesn't stop becoming harmful just because a lad (or lass) has turned 18. I don't know how to fix this other than by education, the genie is out the bottle. [Post edited 18 Nov 2025 11:02]
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| A serious subject (possibly NSFW) on 10:58 - Nov 18 with 367 views | Benters |
My good lady does that to me but without the sex. |  |
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| A serious subject (possibly NSFW) on 11:13 - Nov 18 with 340 views | Swansea_Blue |
That first piece is a tough read, summed up beautifully by the last paragraph:
She says: “When we first started going out, I would have been like ‘Oh, you can choke me if you want to’, and he would say: ‘Why would I do that? I don’t want to do that. I care about you.’” |  |
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