| Josh Sargent 18:21 - Jul 23 with 5719 views | Wickets |
For those interested his big money transfer appears to have stalled according to a report. |  | | |  |
| Josh Sargent on 15:22 - Jul 24 with 985 views | SimonBatfordITFC |
| Josh Sargent on 11:42 - Jul 24 by ArnieM |
Hmm ok , point taken there.
Maybe its HOW I write things, regarding my concerns , and how frequently I express those concerns? I appreciate it is coming across as "moaning " or being "negative", but I'm not intending it to be. In fact I think I voice similar concerns to others on here, but perhaps just dont express it in the right .
Note to self : Must improve HOW I communicate ... :) |
It’s okay to have a realistic and slightly pessimistic outlook. Especially at this time. Ignore the intolerant members of the board. Unless you share their opinion, all they’ll do is tell you that you’re wrong. |  |
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| Josh Sargent on 18:38 - Jul 24 with 786 views | ArnieM |
| Josh Sargent on 15:22 - Jul 24 by SimonBatfordITFC |
It’s okay to have a realistic and slightly pessimistic outlook. Especially at this time. Ignore the intolerant members of the board. Unless you share their opinion, all they’ll do is tell you that you’re wrong. |
Tbh I dont think it matters now what I post. Ill get down votes, personal attacks, etc. I clearly not liked on here, but I'll try to keep posting. I do love my club and do care a lot about what happens. Perhaps my concerns do come across as negative but I'll try not focus on lesser points so much. But I know I'll never be given a chance on here now. Its not a particularly friendly environment at times. |  |
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| Josh Sargent on 19:21 - Jul 24 with 713 views | StokieBlue |
| Josh Sargent on 18:38 - Jul 24 by ArnieM |
Tbh I dont think it matters now what I post. Ill get down votes, personal attacks, etc. I clearly not liked on here, but I'll try to keep posting. I do love my club and do care a lot about what happens. Perhaps my concerns do come across as negative but I'll try not focus on lesser points so much. But I know I'll never be given a chance on here now. Its not a particularly friendly environment at times. |
This is nonsense.
Firstly, you don't help yourself. You accused me of gaslighting you, not a trivial accusation but then refused to produce evidence because it's a lie. You don't take well to people disagreeing with you and thus make accusations like you are now about never being given a chance.
Secondly, you are relentlessly negative. Only a few days ago you said you would stop yet you've continued.
It's not right you're blaming the forum when you really should be looking at yourself.
SB [Post edited 24 Jul 19:43]
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| Josh Sargent on 20:33 - Jul 24 with 621 views | SouperJim |
| Josh Sargent on 18:38 - Jul 24 by ArnieM |
Tbh I dont think it matters now what I post. Ill get down votes, personal attacks, etc. I clearly not liked on here, but I'll try to keep posting. I do love my club and do care a lot about what happens. Perhaps my concerns do come across as negative but I'll try not focus on lesser points so much. But I know I'll never be given a chance on here now. Its not a particularly friendly environment at times. |
Don't let it bother you. You're a good poster and I for one always find what you write worth reading. |  |
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| Josh Sargent on 20:41 - Jul 24 with 573 views | FrimleyBlue |
| Josh Sargent on 18:38 - Jul 24 by ArnieM |
Tbh I dont think it matters now what I post. Ill get down votes, personal attacks, etc. I clearly not liked on here, but I'll try to keep posting. I do love my club and do care a lot about what happens. Perhaps my concerns do come across as negative but I'll try not focus on lesser points so much. But I know I'll never be given a chance on here now. Its not a particularly friendly environment at times. |
Arnie, as someone who I think can appreciate where you're coming from, it took a long while and alot of space time to appreciate myself how negative my posts were even when I felt they weren't. Not only that but at times, I posted nothing but negative, no matter the subject without really realising i was. I think that's the issue here, what may help is if you look at your own profile and threads posted, it may show what others see and therefore it may then show you why you get the heat. |  |
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| Josh Sargent on 20:45 - Jul 24 with 544 views | waveneyblue |
| Josh Sargent on 11:42 - Jul 24 by ArnieM |
Hmm ok , point taken there.
Maybe its HOW I write things, regarding my concerns , and how frequently I express those concerns? I appreciate it is coming across as "moaning " or being "negative", but I'm not intending it to be. In fact I think I voice similar concerns to others on here, but perhaps just dont express it in the right .
Note to self : Must improve HOW I communicate ... :) |
Thing is, we all have concerns.
Mine is getting past the massive hangover from last seasons results.
There's just no need to wade in with negative comments all the time.
Or.. maybe it's just me |  | | |
| Josh Sargent on 20:50 - Jul 24 with 511 views | ArnieM |
| Josh Sargent on 20:41 - Jul 24 by FrimleyBlue |
Arnie, as someone who I think can appreciate where you're coming from, it took a long while and alot of space time to appreciate myself how negative my posts were even when I felt they weren't. Not only that but at times, I posted nothing but negative, no matter the subject without really realising i was. I think that's the issue here, what may help is if you look at your own profile and threads posted, it may show what others see and therefore it may then show you why you get the heat. |
Hi FB..... you won't believe me, but I literally sat at work this afternoon doing just tgst. I do want to be able post on here and not make people fed up. Its never my intention.
But thank you for your post I really appreciate it. | |
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| Josh Sargent on 20:52 - Jul 24 with 497 views | ArnieM |
| Josh Sargent on 20:45 - Jul 24 by waveneyblue |
Thing is, we all have concerns.
Mine is getting past the massive hangover from last seasons results.
There's just no need to wade in with negative comments all the time.
Or.. maybe it's just me |
I think its maybe because I keep replaying im my head the things that bother me, or read other people's posts of similar concern or opinion and post about them in what intend to be a concerned post, but it comes across as negative. | |
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| Josh Sargent on 13:51 - Jul 25 with 241 views | cymroglas |
| Josh Sargent on 20:52 - Jul 24 by ArnieM |
I think its maybe because I keep replaying im my head the things that bother me, or read other people's posts of similar concern or opinion and post about them in what intend to be a concerned post, but it comes across as negative. |
I don't know you and I have not really read your posts....but chin up mate. We are all negative, wrong, emotional, impulsive, whatever at times. That should not stop you from posting. This forum is about a divergence of opinions mostly from lay persons who never played or managed professional football (like me!). | | | |
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