| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks 09:08 - Mar 17 with 640 views | Guthrum |
Uncertainty causing fear, leading to anger and resulting in fighting.
Magnified by the curtailment of normal social relations. Humans are notably social animals and many of them do not deal well with prolonged solitary confinement (being why it is used as a punishment).
The fight-or-flight impulse when it has no easy outlets. You can't even go to the pub for a beer or shout at the football.
The solution? Cut people a bit of extra slack. If someone having a freak-out riles you, step aside for a bit. If you feel the anger rising within yourself, take a breather.
The current situation is 'nae normal', so our behaviours are going to have to adjust in order to cope. [Post edited 17 Mar 2020 9:10]
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| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:12 - Mar 17 with 595 views | homer_123 |
You wanna step outside? Do ya!?
Joking aside, sensible Guthers. Isolation isn't good for anyone, so the longer term effects are going to be exacerbated. |  |
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| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:13 - Mar 17 with 588 views | monytowbray |
| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:12 - Mar 17 by homer_123 |
You wanna step outside? Do ya!?
Joking aside, sensible Guthers. Isolation isn't good for anyone, so the longer term effects are going to be exacerbated. |
I’m split on it, the older I get the more introverted I am getting. |  |
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| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:13 - Mar 17 with 587 views | bluelagos |
I genuinely saw people behave on the road yesterday in a "Fck you" manner that is thankfully very rare. Easy to react but yeah, cut them some slack, as you have no idea what sh1t they are dealing with.
Your words are wise ones Guthers. Wonder if they should be repeated every day on here til this cr×p is all sorted and normality is restored. |  |
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| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:13 - Mar 17 with 583 views | NewcyBlue |
| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:12 - Mar 17 by homer_123 |
You wanna step outside? Do ya!?
Joking aside, sensible Guthers. Isolation isn't good for anyone, so the longer term effects are going to be exacerbated. |
I’m a lover not a fighter.
Want to play mummies and daddies? Which one do you want to be? |  |
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| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:17 - Mar 17 with 566 views | Guthrum |
| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:13 - Mar 17 by monytowbray |
I’m split on it, the older I get the more introverted I am getting. |
Introversion and self-reliance are not necessarily the same thing (I know this from my own experience). Too much inward reflection is not always healthy. People are often harder on themselves than they are on others. | |
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| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:18 - Mar 17 with 551 views | bluelagos |
| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:13 - Mar 17 by NewcyBlue |
I’m a lover not a fighter.
Want to play mummies and daddies? Which one do you want to be? |
Reminds me of a joke...
Bloke gets sent to prison and gets to his cell whers he is met with a big ugly fcker who says "Let's play mummies and daddies, who yoj want to be?"
Bloke thinks about it and it figures it would be better to push than be arse raped, so says he'll be daddy.
"Fine, now come over here and suck mummies cock" | |
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| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:20 - Mar 17 with 539 views | NewcyBlue |
| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:18 - Mar 17 by bluelagos |
Reminds me of a joke...
Bloke gets sent to prison and gets to his cell whers he is met with a big ugly fcker who says "Let's play mummies and daddies, who yoj want to be?"
Bloke thinks about it and it figures it would be better to push than be arse raped, so says he'll be daddy.
"Fine, now come over here and suck mummies cock" |
You spoiled it for me | |
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| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:23 - Mar 17 with 522 views | monytowbray |
| One thing we need to be careful of over the coming weeks on 09:17 - Mar 17 by Guthrum |
Introversion and self-reliance are not necessarily the same thing (I know this from my own experience). Too much inward reflection is not always healthy. People are often harder on themselves than they are on others. |
Did all of that last year. These days I appreciate time with myself more and enjoy it. | |
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