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All the best to you and yours. My own mum passed back in March thanks to cancer, at only 66. I know everyone's experience of grief is different so I shan't give it the 'know what you are going through' but yeah it sucks.
I am really sorry to hear of your loss Noggin. Condolences to you and your family. I lost my mum a few years ago and it’s hard. Everybody deals with loss differently and there are no rights and wrongs, no playbook.
There are plenty more able people than me to advise, so all I’ll say from my experience is make sure you take care of yourself so that you can do your best for those that need your help and, of course, to do what has to be done.
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Very sorry to hear that Noggin. It’ll be a surreal time for you, but all you can do is take things a day at a time and look after yourself and the rest of the family. We’re always here if you need someone to speak to.
Oh no! That sucks mate. My dad died suddenly 4 years ago this Feb. I'm not sure if you really get over it. You just eventually start getting used to a different normal. Look after yourselves and do what feels right for you.
Distortion becomes somehow pure in its wildness.
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As others have said, you will find the immediate future an emotional time and whilst you will never ever forget your Mum the heartbreak will ease over time. A "different normal" as another poster has rightly said.
Look after yourself and don't be afraid to let the emotions come out. Post on here if you'd like support and, importantly, talk to someone, anyone, if things get on top of you. I don't think I know you but private message me on here if you'd like to talk.