| Thoughts 13:43 - Oct 15 with 15306 views | IH_KGF |
A lovely couple we know are getting married, and we (as a family) have been invited to their special day.
Both are extremely passionate vegans, their life, fair play.
The menu is only vegan options. I'll eat anything. The children however, of the 2 options to pick from aren't going to be touched.
We've asked them if it would be ok if they picked something off the non vegan menu (at the hotel) told straight up no.
Now, i get their position, however on our own wedding day some years back WE ensured that their dietary needs were full catered for, paying extra for them to have something not on the menu. (the only people out of 80/90 that were vegans)
To ensure the peace is kept we've said to not bother with ordering food for the kids, and before/after the food we'll take the kids away from the main event to get them something to fill their tummy's... told that isn't an option.
As I see it;
- our kids not wanting that food is OUR problem
- we've offered a suggestion to them save money
- we've taken the worry away from them
- but they are basically saying they must order food from the vegan menu, not eat it, and can't leave the room after to get food that they would like.
Starting to think i might not bother going at this rate... but the great minds of TWTD might be able to tell me otherwise.
Oh, and its strictly alcohol free, not free as in drink all you want, free as in not a drop! |  | | |  |
| Thoughts on 16:59 - Oct 17 with 960 views | EdwardStone |
| Thoughts on 16:15 - Oct 17 by MJallday |
would this be an appropriate thread to advertise the twtd BBQ? |
Of course..... never a bad time to mention the wonderous BBQ Happening
Veg and vegan options always available, seperate cooking facilities/ untensils etc
The event strives to be fully inclusive, I even allow non -Town fans to attend [Post edited 17 Oct 2025 18:37]
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| Thoughts on 17:13 - Oct 17 with 928 views | FelixBlue4 |
For what it’s worth unless you are heavily invested in the friendship cut your losses now these type of people (not vegans) will always be a pain. When they have kids it will all be about little Billy you will always be giving in, friendships are like relationships there needs to be give and take.obviously do what you think is right but trust me in 20 years time you will be asking why they don’t talk to you anymore and blaming yourselves. |  | | |
| Thoughts on 18:37 - Oct 17 with 857 views | FrimleyBlue |
| Thoughts on 16:59 - Oct 17 by EdwardStone |
Of course..... never a bad time to mention the wonderous BBQ Happening
Veg and vegan options always available, seperate cooking facilities/ untensils etc
The event strives to be fully inclusive, I even allow non -Town fans to attend [Post edited 17 Oct 2025 18:37]
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saw some chicken on here recently that may be of use |  |
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| Thoughts on 18:40 - Oct 17 with 841 views | EdwardStone |
| Thoughts on 18:37 - Oct 17 by FrimleyBlue |
saw some chicken on here recently that may be of use |
Those chickens might bee a bit.... "fragrant" shall we say, by last weekend in June
Did I mention last weekend in June?
Next years event will be last weekend in June for those who like to plan ahead [Post edited 17 Oct 2025 18:40]
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| Thoughts on 19:55 - Oct 17 with 790 views | Swansea_Blue |
They sound unreasonable to me. You’ve rightly been sensitive to their wishes (it is their day after all) and offered work arounds and it’s been thrown back in your face. They certainly can’t dictate to you whether or not you take your kids out to find them something to eat. Unless you’re going to be tied up (it’s not that sort of gathering, is it lol?).
If I was in your shoes I’d go with the flow for ordering (not ordering for the kids probably). And then in the day just do what you want. They’ll be too busy to notice if you disappear for an hour. |  |
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| Thoughts on 20:05 - Oct 28 with 598 views | Bigalhunter |
| Thoughts on 15:12 - Oct 17 by IH_KGF |
I'm really sorry, but I don't really understand the first paragraph.
I might be miles off it here, but is there a suggestion I've made up this scenario?
What a waste of my time that would be. Of course if that isn't the suggestion, and I've got the wrong end of the stick, then I apologise in advance.
and also, fingers crossed for a big 3 points tonight |
Apology accepted.
Hope the ‘wedding’ went well..
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| Sometimes I giggle about the frothing lunatic who’s put me on ignore and now has to constantly log out to see what I’ve said. Beneath that counterfeit persona lurks the same pitifully desperate egomaniac. | | Poll: | September 2025. Which one? |
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| Thoughts on 22:16 - Oct 28 with 515 views | Clapham_Junction |
| Thoughts on 20:05 - Oct 28 by Bigalhunter |
Apology accepted.
Hope the ‘wedding’ went well..
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Ha, they didn't last long. Did smell a bit too strongly of troll. |  | | |
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