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DM from Southey 15:58 - May 2 with 2950 viewsNthsuffolkblue

"What a man 🤣🤣 get promoted and you’re so obsessed with Ashton all you can think to do is post about him. Must be mad to be so obsessed with Farage (who 90% of people don’t give a shit about anymore) that he occupies your brain constantly. I assume if the greens bring they’re deputy leader who celebrated October 7th down to Portman Road you’d be just as angry?"

Just to make it clear: I have no interest in a private debate with you over this.

However, what makes you so sure that 90% of people "don’t give a shit about anymore"?

In fact, if that is the case, it is very much the reason I continue to bang on about it. Why are 90% of fans happy to ignore it?

I would have not had any issue with Ashton had Farage simply been sent down to PR by Reform. He wasn't. He was invited, wined, dined and given free gifts. He was then give free reign to shoot promotional material. Further Ashton lied about this and then issued a dreadful non-apology for doing so.

Why do you feel so triggered to send me the above private message?
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DM from Southey on 21:21 - May 2 with 650 viewsSwansea_Blue

DM from Southey on 21:20 - May 2 by Nthsuffolkblue

They are a mental health professional so it is their right to tell me presumably.


We are all a bit nuts on here in fairness lol

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DM from Southey on 21:24 - May 2 with 638 viewsFrimleyBlue

DM from Southey on 21:17 - May 2 by Swansea_Blue

Well he sounds like a right tvvat. What is it about these whiny bitches today telling people what they can or can’t think and post? There have been several attempts at this weird, obsessive controlling behaviour that’s not needed on a day like this (or ever).


What is love is this comment seems to be made..

" I spoke to people around me and they arent bothered by it" its only people on twtd who are.. we are then assumed to simply have to believe their comment..


Some however will also say
" I know people that are still bothered by it" ------ not valid. Stop trying to get people to follow your view. Where's the proof? Etc


Its so so simple ffs. Some people are bothered, some arent.

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DM from Southey on 21:28 - May 2 with 623 viewsNthsuffolkblue

DM from Southey on 21:24 - May 2 by FrimleyBlue

What is love is this comment seems to be made..

" I spoke to people around me and they arent bothered by it" its only people on twtd who are.. we are then assumed to simply have to believe their comment..


Some however will also say
" I know people that are still bothered by it" ------ not valid. Stop trying to get people to follow your view. Where's the proof? Etc


Its so so simple ffs. Some people are bothered, some arent.


They are very good at deciding what people they know think and don't like it that those on here they tell how to think won't fit in with it.

But we are in a bubble.

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DM from Southey on 21:32 - May 2 with 612 viewsCoachRob

DM from Southey on 21:17 - May 2 by Swansea_Blue

Well he sounds like a right tvvat. What is it about these whiny bitches today telling people what they can or can’t think and post? There have been several attempts at this weird, obsessive controlling behaviour that’s not needed on a day like this (or ever).


You should see their posting history. Blimey.

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DM from Southey on 01:16 - May 3 with 529 viewsRyorry

DM from Southey on 21:11 - May 2 by Nthsuffolkblue

Oh, and also Southey, as a mental health professional, is it your usual first action upon diagnosing someone with a condition to send them a message saying "what a man 🤣🤣..." that doesn't seem a very professional way to act to me. And it's "their" leader not "they're". I am guessing your mental health qualification isn't at degree level is it?


And “mental health professionals” don’t DM women they’ve never met calling them “thick boners”. Def info.
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DM from Southey on 06:12 - May 3 with 470 viewsBenters

DM from Southey on 16:14 - May 2 by Nthsuffolkblue

It is very notable.

I have challenged the Ashton-inners whether they would be happy if it had been Corbyn or Polanski.

They never reply.


That’s simply not true I have replied on numerous occasions that it wouldn’t bother me who had lunch with who.

Ashton In.

Ps who is Southey?

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DM from Southey on 06:43 - May 3 with 461 viewsKBsSocks

DM from Southey on 06:12 - May 3 by Benters

That’s simply not true I have replied on numerous occasions that it wouldn’t bother me who had lunch with who.

Ashton In.

Ps who is Southey?


Ashton OUT.

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DM from Southey on 06:56 - May 3 with 454 viewsnoggin

DM from Southey on 18:46 - May 2 by southey

Ipswich town have been promoted 6 times in our history to the Premier League/first division. Comments like your’s are divisive and on all days aren’t going to achieve anything other than feeding into your own validation you receive on here when you post.

I note you complete missed the question regarding the anti semantic POS deputy leader of the greens, I’d love for you to explain to me why a party who’s deputy leader celebrated the October 7th attacks isn’t as disgusting as what Farage says/ does. ( he tweeted it very easy to look up on X)

The majority of the fans around me in the stadium I speak to, the ones I met in the hotel I stayed in last night and that I’ve seen not just on twtd but further afield have moved on. You might not believe this given how much time you spend on here but in the pub before the game, after and currently the one we’re sitting in now Ashton’s future hasn’t come up once, This is a day to celebrate and attention seeking posts from the likes of you on days like today when we should be supporting the team/ celebrating the team’s success don’t achieve anything asides from inflating you’re own ego from the attention you get every time you post the same thing after games.

No question Ashton lied to us and if he goes I won’t shed any tears, but to the majority of Ipswich fans today is a day of celebration. We haven’t had many over the last 40+ years and posters like you who continually look to score political victories online after games do nothing but continue to dived the fan base. Why not wait until tomorrow or Monday to post about Ashton and and his future. No doubt you and usual mob will be involved in a 10+ pager come Thursday/Friday once the local elections results have come in.

That’s all I’ve got to say on this thread feel free to DM.


"This is a day to celebrate and attention seeking posts from the likes of you on days like today when we should be supporting the team/ celebrating the team’s success don’t achieve anything asides from inflating you’re own ego from the attention you get every time you post the same thing after games"

Yet you took the time and effort to send a very weird and, if you really are a HCP, worrying DM to someone you don't know.

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DM from Southey on 07:24 - May 3 with 418 viewsnoggin

DM from Southey on 01:16 - May 3 by Ryorry

And “mental health professionals” don’t DM women they’ve never met calling them “thick boners”. Def info.
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I hope Phil and Gav are aware of this new poster's behavior. Very weird.

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DM from Southey on 11:41 - May 3 with 338 viewsRyorry

DM from Southey on 07:24 - May 3 by noggin

I hope Phil and Gav are aware of this new poster's behavior. Very weird.


I’m pretty sure it was just one of his ignorant assumptions that I was a bloke and he didn’t have a clue I’m female; also felt Phil/Gav didn’t deserve being dragged away from their celebrations to deal with abusive oafs, so didn’t bother.

Blocked southey now, but if he does this kind of DMing again to others, this thread needs to be revived.

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DM from Southey on 12:26 - May 3 with 281 viewsCafe_Newman

DM from Southey on 21:03 - May 2 by Nthsuffolkblue

You missed off the first two paragraphs of your full DM that you sent when I didn't respond to your first one and even gave me permission to share (thank you).

"In my capacity as a health professional, I genuinely believe you could do with someone qualified with some help. Have you ever been diagnosed with any psychological issues?

I’ll respond to your thread now. I won’t be posting the above or any of this as I don’t wish to embarrass you but the constant almost obsessive attitude you display towards Ashton/Farage isn’t normal, please consider getting help if you haven’t so already.
"

To respond: If you are genuinely a health professional, thank you for your analysis of my mental state. Do you tend to diagnose other mental conditions based on online posting too?

"yours" does not need an apostrophe. I wonder what level of mental health qualifications you possess but frankly I don't care just as it is none of your business to know my own mental health condition. My comments are divisive but the chairman/CEO's behaviour is not? I don't receive validation when I post on here. I receive a lot of abuse from right wing extremists like you instead.

I didn't miss the question at all, as you would have realised when I asked you whether you would have been OK if it had been Corbyn or Polanski instead of Farage who was platformed. You ignored that. It smacks of hypocrisy from you. It is your attempt at deflecting from the issue. I have made it clear why I am disgusted with Ashton and the inaction of the club. You are the one justifying it by suggesting at least it wasn't the Green Party deputy leader instead.

Please explain why you are so sure the majority of fans have moved on. You have asked them about it? Or you are assuming they have? As I have explained, even if they have it doesn't justify or excuse Ashton's behaviour and, in fact, only highlights how important it is to continue to highlight it so that fans don't just ignore it. You seem to suggest Ashton's future doesn't come up which suggests to me you haven't actually asked their opinions on the matter but rather assumed their thoughts for them. As a mental health professional you will know how unwise that is.

My post isn't attention seeking. You and a few others are responding and giving it attention. That's your choice. You didn't have to. It isn't my ego being inflated being told by you that I am mentally ill or by waveney that I am pathetic and mentally incapable of moving on.

I am not looking to score political victories at all. I made a point and that would have been it but you keep choosing to respond. If you don't I will leave it. But if you do I will respond to any points you make.

I am sorry that Ashton's position causes you some distress and detracts from your enjoyment of the club's success. That is a position many of us share.

I won't DM. I don't know you and if I have anything to say to you it will be in public on here. I would appreciate it if you ceased DMing too. It is unsolicited and I will report it to Phil if it continues.


The state of this country's health care recruitment these days!

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DM from Southey on 12:56 - May 3 with 253 viewsleitrimblue

DM from Southey on 06:43 - May 3 by KBsSocks

Ashton OUT.


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DM from Southey on 12:57 - May 3 with 250 viewsleitrimblue

DM from Southey on 21:32 - May 2 by CoachRob

You should see their posting history. Blimey.


Makes you wonder who's alt account it is..
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DM from Southey on 12:59 - May 3 with 247 viewsleitrimblue

DM from Southey on 01:16 - May 3 by Ryorry

And “mental health professionals” don’t DM women they’ve never met calling them “thick boners”. Def info.
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What a charmer.
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DM from Southey on 13:01 - May 3 with 234 viewsRyorry

DM from Southey on 12:57 - May 3 by leitrimblue

Makes you wonder who's alt account it is..



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DM from Southey on 13:48 - May 3 with 179 viewsSwansea_Blue

DM from Southey on 01:16 - May 3 by Ryorry

And “mental health professionals” don’t DM women they’ve never met calling them “thick boners”. Def info.
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I’ve heard it’s the new tough love approach lol

Sorry I shouldn’t laugh, but when you put it like that it’s difficult not to.

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DM from Southey on 15:26 - May 3 with 120 viewsNthsuffolkblue

DM from Southey on 06:12 - May 3 by Benters

That’s simply not true I have replied on numerous occasions that it wouldn’t bother me who had lunch with who.

Ashton In.

Ps who is Southey?


Apologies I didn't specifically state aside from yourself who would be have no problem with the club publically endorsing Corbyn or Polanski.

I did miss you explicitly stating that, though. And your simply "having lunch with" suggests you didn't mean that anyway!

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DM from Southey on 15:34 - May 3 with 105 viewsNthsuffolkblue

DM from Southey on 11:41 - May 3 by Ryorry

I’m pretty sure it was just one of his ignorant assumptions that I was a bloke and he didn’t have a clue I’m female; also felt Phil/Gav didn’t deserve being dragged away from their celebrations to deal with abusive oafs, so didn’t bother.

Blocked southey now, but if he does this kind of DMing again to others, this thread needs to be revived.


Indeed. My own view is that I would rather this poster's views and behaviour are better highlighted than left held in private.

If it became more than a minor nuisance to me I would report it. If others find it is happening to them and they are distressed by it, of course they can direct Phil to this thread.

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DM from Southey on 15:37 - May 3 with 100 viewsNthsuffolkblue

DM from Southey on 06:12 - May 3 by Benters

That’s simply not true I have replied on numerous occasions that it wouldn’t bother me who had lunch with who.

Ashton In.

Ps who is Southey?


If you read the thread through you will see who they are. But to save you the trouble:

They are a health professional who has chosen out of the blue to send me 2 private messages. Both are included in this thread. The first in the OP, the second is partly shared by Southey themselves and I have added the missing first two paragraphs they chose not to share "to save embarrassing me".

Beyond that, I know as little as anyone else (unless it is an alt account for someone who might cover it up somehow ...)

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DM from Southey on 15:45 - May 3 with 84 viewsCrayonKing

DM from Southey on 06:12 - May 3 by Benters

That’s simply not true I have replied on numerous occasions that it wouldn’t bother me who had lunch with who.

Ashton In.

Ps who is Southey?


And as others have posted numerous times the issue was never about who had lunch with who (whom?). But let’s keep going round in circles and pretending that it is
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