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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work 11:07 - Jul 13 with 7737 viewsnoggin

Probably the most difficult decision I've ever made. The constant doubt about whether I can afford it is causing me all sorts of anxiety.
Anyone else had these doubts and can give me some positive thoughts? I haven't paid off my mortgage so will have to work something out there, but, eventually, I plan to travel for a few months, or possibly years, before moving somewhere cheaper than Norway.
My head is all over the place right now.

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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:16 - Jul 13 with 4317 viewsearlsgreenblue

Best decision you’ve ever made, when’s your flight due in & i will come & pick you up! Calheta is beautiful & the sea is warming nicely..
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:17 - Jul 13 with 4293 viewsbluefunk

Best advice I can give you is look forward, not back. Second guessing a decision that’s been made is exhausting, you’ve made it and you have at least part of a plan for enjoying the next phase of your life and put it into practice.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:18 - Jul 13 with 4270 viewsgiant_stow

Congratulations - ballsy move. I know we've had the odd disagreement, but genuinely all the best with your new live - exciting times!

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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:19 - Jul 13 with 4258 viewsnoggin

I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:16 - Jul 13 by earlsgreenblue

Best decision you’ve ever made, when’s your flight due in & i will come & pick you up! Calheta is beautiful & the sea is warming nicely..


Yeah, Madeira was on my list, but from what I can see, affordable housing is virtually non existent for my budget.

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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:25 - Jul 13 with 4161 viewscressi

Best decision you could make as time is precious as we get older. I'm sixty five and about 6 or 7 yrs ago I decided to work roughly 25 hours so I work 5 days a fortnight some long days but gives me the other nine days to do what I want whether with my other half or grandkids or the football.
In 18 months I'm done never no how long we have.
Work has always been do it to do what u can and pay ur way not a I want or need to be there so enjoy time.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:26 - Jul 13 with 4152 viewsWhos_blue

I left my job of 34 years this February. Handing in my notice 3 months previously was more cathartic than I thought it would be.
I loved my job but I knew it was the right time.
I now work 3 days a week in a job so far removed from my previous job and I really enjoy it.
The money isn't great but added to my pension it's OK.
I have to say that I love this new phase of my life.
Go grab it mate.

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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:27 - Jul 13 with 4134 viewsStochesStotasBlewe

All the best to you. It’s possibly a great opportunity to do your travel plans and all the other stuff that we all put off for one reason or another, scary but exciting in equal measure.
A friend of mine took the chance five years ago, packed up their jobs and moved to rural Spain and him and his partner have never been happier. They both do part time work out there and go on frequent road trips around Europe as life is much more laid back and cheaper.
Good luck.

We have no village green, or a shop. It's very, very quiet. I can walk to the pub.

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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:35 - Jul 13 with 3959 views_CliveBaker_

I can't speak from experience, but I dare say you'll do well to find many people who utter the words 'I wish I'd retired later' on their death beds. Of course the practical realities are real, and I don't mean to trivialise your reservations.

Ps. I hear Burnley's cheap.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:36 - Jul 13 with 3949 viewseireblue

I have never known someone regret retiring.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:42 - Jul 13 with 3866 viewsmellowblue

mentally once you start thinking of retirement, then in your head it is time to go. It is great the decision is in your hands. So many are marginalized and basically forced to retire.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:46 - Jul 13 with 3822 viewsSwansea_Blue

I spent a bit of time with a financial adviser before I made the decision and it helped me set things up in a way that made it possible. Horses for courses though and you don’t need to do that of course.

I don’t think you’ll regret it. What’s the worse that can happen? You’ll have a great time travelling that you’ll never forget and if in the worst case scenario it looks like money is going to eventually run out you can always find a bit of work. As long as you’ve got your health and enough money to enjoy life a bit, that’s all that matters.

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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:52 - Jul 13 with 3726 viewsGuthrum

Hope it goes well. When it comes to the work, keep an open mind about going in different directions - especially if you can afford to do something interesting, maybe part-time, as a top-up.

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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:54 - Jul 13 with 3710 viewsnoggin

I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:46 - Jul 13 by Swansea_Blue

I spent a bit of time with a financial adviser before I made the decision and it helped me set things up in a way that made it possible. Horses for courses though and you don’t need to do that of course.

I don’t think you’ll regret it. What’s the worse that can happen? You’ll have a great time travelling that you’ll never forget and if in the worst case scenario it looks like money is going to eventually run out you can always find a bit of work. As long as you’ve got your health and enough money to enjoy life a bit, that’s all that matters.


I'm lucky in the sense that my pensions are defined benefits, so it's purely doubts about the affordability of retirement.
Work has been stressful the last couple of years so my decision was was more to do with health than wealth.

Thanks everyone for the reassuring messages.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:56 - Jul 13 with 3688 viewsIndependentlyBlue

Best of luck to you. Hope it works out. Retirement, or even semi-retirement, seems to bring clarity to your mind. Breathe deep and enjoy it.

Better to stay silent and be thought a fool than open your mouth and remove all doubt

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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:57 - Jul 13 with 3680 viewspeterleeblue

I'm in 100% the same position.
Yet to give notice but want to go end March 27.

I am trying to quite literally put my house in order to avoid curved ball major expense in retirement.
I am lucky in that through luck and some good judgement (certainly in the last decade) I have had company schemes to fund.
I assume you have taken Financial Advice? If not do it.
I am at the point where I am sick of the procrastination and the studying of spreadsheets. I am just going to say F*** it and do it.
I am convinced that 60-70 is the decade when you can still perhaps rely on health.
With each year I continue into that time is 10% of the healthy time I have left. In truth and at the end of the day this is the only question worth answering.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:58 - Jul 13 with 3665 viewskiwiblue

I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 11:46 - Jul 13 by Swansea_Blue

I spent a bit of time with a financial adviser before I made the decision and it helped me set things up in a way that made it possible. Horses for courses though and you don’t need to do that of course.

I don’t think you’ll regret it. What’s the worse that can happen? You’ll have a great time travelling that you’ll never forget and if in the worst case scenario it looks like money is going to eventually run out you can always find a bit of work. As long as you’ve got your health and enough money to enjoy life a bit, that’s all that matters.


72 now gave up as my business suffered in covid . Carried on after and just working doing fun things sometimes for money sometimes for free.
Good private and state pension from my early uk employments keep me in money plus a working wife.
Enjoying life with work that's fun and foreign trips when I want a travel break. Third one this year to Australia next week plus two to Japan earlier.
Take a chance recover and then enjoy yourself.
Tip I got was the way to live a long healthy life is to...... keep breathing.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:02 - Jul 13 with 3608 viewsJ2BLUE

Congrats.

You will be free. I often think people vastly overestimate the amount of money they need to retire. People seem to imagine a life of constant holidays and other expenses. There are some decent Youtube videos on retiring early/frugally. One man moved to Spain, bought an apartment and now lives on about 1000 EUR a month.

Good luck. I doubt you will look back. As I get older I think the saying about the best things in life being free is more and more true.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:05 - Jul 13 with 3583 viewsnoggin

I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:02 - Jul 13 by J2BLUE

Congrats.

You will be free. I often think people vastly overestimate the amount of money they need to retire. People seem to imagine a life of constant holidays and other expenses. There are some decent Youtube videos on retiring early/frugally. One man moved to Spain, bought an apartment and now lives on about 1000 EUR a month.

Good luck. I doubt you will look back. As I get older I think the saying about the best things in life being free is more and more true.


The Rambling Irishman? I've been following him for some time. He seems a very wise man.

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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:13 - Jul 13 with 3496 viewsWeWereZombies

I more or less retired at fifty eight and was a little way (but not a long way) off being financially comfortable, but the relief from not having to deal with difficult work colleagues was a very palpable health benefit. Thirteen years on I am better off and possibly more healthy too, it's a question of looking after those pension pots in my case and also keeping active.

I think I am right in saying you are a qualified paramedic ? I suspect you have good opportunities to use that skill away from Norway, either in paid or voluntary employment - and than can be tied in with your travel plans. For myself, I travel extensively (currently planning a trip to Norway but looking at accommodation costs I am wondering whether the more affordable option is to travel towards Kirkenes via Sweden...) and find that travelling light and finding that dorms and coach travel can be as comfortable as en-suite rooms and car hire as well as way more cost effective with the added bonus of a lot less lonely. That being said, I did travel through Colombia for a month last year and never paid more than forty quid a night (including cooked breakfast) in hotels that were quite upmarket...and then there was the hiring of teh Toyota Hilux in Namibia the previous year.

Hoping it works out as well for you as it has done for me.

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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:14 - Jul 13 with 3480 viewsJ2BLUE

I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:05 - Jul 13 by noggin

The Rambling Irishman? I've been following him for some time. He seems a very wise man.


I think so. Haven't watched him for quite a while but based on a quick glance I think that's him.

You might like this couple as well:

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https://www.youtube. com/@simplycastingoff

He decided he was retiring at 55 and they were just going to find a way to make it work. Their story has been interesting. Started off thinking of moving to France. Their plan has changed many times which has been very interesting to see.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:18 - Jul 13 with 3417 viewsnoggin

I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:14 - Jul 13 by J2BLUE

I think so. Haven't watched him for quite a while but based on a quick glance I think that's him.

You might like this couple as well:

Edit: Video doesn't load. Remove the paces below if interested.

https://www.youtube. com/@simplycastingoff

He decided he was retiring at 55 and they were just going to find a way to make it work. Their story has been interesting. Started off thinking of moving to France. Their plan has changed many times which has been very interesting to see.
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I can't open the link, but I think it might be the couple in Kent, who have bought an old boat that they considered considered living on and are currently in their caravan, while selling the house?

Their plan actually worries me, on their behalf. They seem to have quite a bit of bad luck and a very limited budget. I hope it works out for them though.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:21 - Jul 13 with 3369 viewsJ2BLUE

I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:18 - Jul 13 by noggin

I can't open the link, but I think it might be the couple in Kent, who have bought an old boat that they considered considered living on and are currently in their caravan, while selling the house?

Their plan actually worries me, on their behalf. They seem to have quite a bit of bad luck and a very limited budget. I hope it works out for them though.
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Yep, sounds like we are watching a lot of the same videos!

I lost a bit of interest in their story when they were going to live on a boat but got back into it a little bit recently.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:23 - Jul 13 with 3328 viewsnoggin

I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:21 - Jul 13 by J2BLUE

Yep, sounds like we are watching a lot of the same videos!

I lost a bit of interest in their story when they were going to live on a boat but got back into it a little bit recently.


I just edited my post to say that their plan worries me on their behalf. Interesting watching their journey though.

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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:25 - Jul 13 with 3255 viewsblue62

Congratulations. I did it last year. Finances are always a concern, it's boring but sit down with a piece of paper or speak to a financial adviser.

The thing I found the hardest was not having a routine, when you have been getting up and going to the office for 40 years to suddenly stop is very strange. I still feel a bit of guilt if I go out mid week.

I do a bit of freelance work now to top up my pension and also it helps stop me being on here all night and day.

Feel free to message if I can offer any help then more than happy to.
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I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:28 - Jul 13 with 3194 viewsnoggin

I've just sent in my notice to retire from work on 12:25 - Jul 13 by blue62

Congratulations. I did it last year. Finances are always a concern, it's boring but sit down with a piece of paper or speak to a financial adviser.

The thing I found the hardest was not having a routine, when you have been getting up and going to the office for 40 years to suddenly stop is very strange. I still feel a bit of guilt if I go out mid week.

I do a bit of freelance work now to top up my pension and also it helps stop me being on here all night and day.

Feel free to message if I can offer any help then more than happy to.


"Feel free to message if I can offer any help then more than happy to."

Thank you, appreciate the offer.

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