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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying 12:58 - Feb 5 with 8344 viewsGlasgowBlue

If you are a male who has served in HM forces.

Isn't that gender stereotyping? And if people hold such regressive attitudes it can only stop men from speaking out for fear of being labelled weak?

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:11 - Feb 5 with 4150 viewsgiant_stow

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:42 - Feb 5 by HARRY10

or the use of the word 'unlikely' suggests a degree of disbelief by the person making the comment

not a claim of a definite fact

odd (or not) how it is always you right wing loons who distort things to try to defend your prejudice..................

.....................or are aware of the hypocricy of this latest bleat when set against an earlier bleat about an MP sharing a platform with other racists


I don't understand the hypocracy accusation - any chance of spelling that one out?

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:14 - Feb 5 with 4142 viewsDarth_Koont

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:09 - Feb 5 by giant_stow

'whitemanspaining'?!

Nope, just criticising her silly tweet for being silly - this is very simple stuff and my skin colour really is immaterial to that (edit: as is Diane's skin colour by the by).
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Of course, in that first line I was just being ridiculously harsh with your post and then saying what you meant with it and ignoring what you might have meant. See?

The context stuff I stand for though. And I suspect if you asked Abbott whether people in the armed forces can't be bullied she'd of course disagree.
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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:24 - Feb 5 with 4112 viewsgiant_stow

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:14 - Feb 5 by Darth_Koont

Of course, in that first line I was just being ridiculously harsh with your post and then saying what you meant with it and ignoring what you might have meant. See?

The context stuff I stand for though. And I suspect if you asked Abbott whether people in the armed forces can't be bullied she'd of course disagree.
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I don't really get what you're saying, but no matter - this isn't not worth a big back and forth.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:26 - Feb 5 with 4101 viewsGlasgowBlue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:14 - Feb 5 by Darth_Koont

Of course, in that first line I was just being ridiculously harsh with your post and then saying what you meant with it and ignoring what you might have meant. See?

The context stuff I stand for though. And I suspect if you asked Abbott whether people in the armed forces can't be bullied she'd of course disagree.
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Any chance you could re post that first paragraph in English please?

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:42 - Feb 5 with 4075 viewsDarth_Koont

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:26 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue

Any chance you could re post that first paragraph in English please?


Just editorialise it and make it what you want it to mean.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:48 - Feb 5 with 4057 viewsmonytowbray

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:34 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue



Surely her comments play into the stereotype that that "hard" men cannot be bullied or vulnerable?


Are women not allowed in the army anymore? It’s very assumptive on your part.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:49 - Feb 5 with 4053 viewsmonytowbray

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:52 - Feb 5 by hampstead_blue

She is something else.

Just look at what you could have won!!! Your next Home Secretary......

To answer the OP, or actually Dumb Abbott's stupid tweet........Lt Gen Leakey is correct and his integrity cannot be questioned.
He would not lie.

Bercow is a disgrace. Gross Misconduct should also mean loss of pension......

Who do you believe? Dumb Abbott or Lt Gen Leakey?


If you think Diane Abbot is dumb then I’ve got some horrible news for you in relation to the PM you voted for...

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:56 - Feb 5 with 4047 viewsGlasgowBlue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:48 - Feb 5 by monytowbray

Are women not allowed in the army anymore? It’s very assumptive on your part.


That's poor even by your standards. David Leakey is a man. The comment was aimed at him.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:56 - Feb 5 with 4046 viewsDarth_Koont

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:24 - Feb 5 by giant_stow

I don't really get what you're saying, but no matter - this isn't not worth a big back and forth.


It is a bit tricky. But trying to put it as simply as possible, I took what you wrote and used it to accuse you of whitemansplaining.

Which is the same tactic that's been used to accuse Abbott of saying people in the armed forces can't be bullied or their experiences should be dismissed.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:58 - Feb 5 with 4032 viewsmonytowbray

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:56 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue

That's poor even by your standards. David Leakey is a man. The comment was aimed at him.


So is all abuse aimed at Dianne Abbot automatically racist and sexist by that logic? Because that’s going to open up a fantastic can of worms.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:00 - Feb 5 with 4021 viewsGlasgowBlue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:56 - Feb 5 by Darth_Koont

It is a bit tricky. But trying to put it as simply as possible, I took what you wrote and used it to accuse you of whitemansplaining.

Which is the same tactic that's been used to accuse Abbott of saying people in the armed forces can't be bullied or their experiences should be dismissed.


I think your head is so far up your bottom these days that you have no idea what you are posting. It's just pompous word soup.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:02 - Feb 5 with 4008 viewsDarth_Koont

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:00 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue

I think your head is so far up your bottom these days that you have no idea what you are posting. It's just pompous word soup.


Thanks.

Coming from a devious (redacted) like you, it means everything.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:05 - Feb 5 with 3976 viewsGlasgowBlue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:58 - Feb 5 by monytowbray

So is all abuse aimed at Dianne Abbot automatically racist and sexist by that logic? Because that’s going to open up a fantastic can of worms.


If abuse aimed at Diane Abbot is racist in nature then of course it's racist abuse. If it's sexist in nature then of course it's sexist.


And of course I would be the first to call it out.

https://www.twtd.co.uk/forum/445906/page:1

If somebody is incredulous that a former military "man" is the victim of bullying then it's gender stereotyping.

If David Leakey was a gay woman serving in the armed forces and the same comment had been made regarding her claims of being bullied then it would be playing to the stereotype that gay women are butch.

You seem to be bending over backwards to defend Abbot's comments because she is a Labour MP. Had the same words come from a Tory then you'd now be in the middle of a 10 pager defending why you called her a fascist.

Be consistent man.
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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:14 - Feb 5 with 3940 viewschicoazul

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:52 - Feb 5 by SouperJim

They have, but the formal complaints have only gone in since Corbyn nominated him for a peerage of course.


So weird how a Socialist would use and endorse the honours system in such a way.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:15 - Feb 5 with 3926 viewsmonytowbray

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:05 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue

If abuse aimed at Diane Abbot is racist in nature then of course it's racist abuse. If it's sexist in nature then of course it's sexist.


And of course I would be the first to call it out.

https://www.twtd.co.uk/forum/445906/page:1

If somebody is incredulous that a former military "man" is the victim of bullying then it's gender stereotyping.

If David Leakey was a gay woman serving in the armed forces and the same comment had been made regarding her claims of being bullied then it would be playing to the stereotype that gay women are butch.

You seem to be bending over backwards to defend Abbot's comments because she is a Labour MP. Had the same words come from a Tory then you'd now be in the middle of a 10 pager defending why you called her a fascist.

Be consistent man.
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I’m not defending her words. The idea someone cannot be bullied for any reason is pretty sh1tty, particularly on a personal level for me. As stated in my first reply once I found the news story.

But she stated it’s because he was in the army. You’ve jumped the gun on this and assumed it’s because he’s male. That’s my point. In a roundabout way you’ve made a bit of a sexist point in trying to make it about sexism. Women can join the army too.

That’s all I had to say on the matter from the start and I’m not sure I can be any clearer.
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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:16 - Feb 5 with 3930 viewsDarth_Koont

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:14 - Feb 5 by chicoazul

So weird how a Socialist would use and endorse the honours system in such a way.


A big deal for Bercow himself though.

Socialists are good like that, thinking about others.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:18 - Feb 5 with 3915 viewsGlasgowBlue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:16 - Feb 5 by Darth_Koont

A big deal for Bercow himself though.

Socialists are good like that, thinking about others.


Has Corbyn nominated anybody else who happens to be implicated ion a bullying scandal?

I mean once would be careless. But twice....

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:18 - Feb 5 with 3912 viewsDarth_Koont

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:15 - Feb 5 by monytowbray

I’m not defending her words. The idea someone cannot be bullied for any reason is pretty sh1tty, particularly on a personal level for me. As stated in my first reply once I found the news story.

But she stated it’s because he was in the army. You’ve jumped the gun on this and assumed it’s because he’s male. That’s my point. In a roundabout way you’ve made a bit of a sexist point in trying to make it about sexism. Women can join the army too.

That’s all I had to say on the matter from the start and I’m not sure I can be any clearer.
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To be fair, GB is a bit sexist. I don't think he means anything by it though - probably just how he grew up.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:19 - Feb 5 with 3906 viewschicoazul

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:16 - Feb 5 by Darth_Koont

A big deal for Bercow himself though.

Socialists are good like that, thinking about others.


To each according to his needs, and I am sure what John Bercow needs is a peerage and the accompanying £300 a day attendance allowance. Just think it's weird for the Maximum Still Leader to endorse such an undemocratic system.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:23 - Feb 5 with 3889 viewsDarth_Koont

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:18 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue

Has Corbyn nominated anybody else who happens to be implicated ion a bullying scandal?

I mean once would be careless. But twice....


Kawczynski, the Tory support for Orban, Brexit and your entire political past getting to you?

Keep playing the antisocial justice warrior and people *might* look the other way.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:24 - Feb 5 with 3877 viewsGlasgowBlue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:23 - Feb 5 by Darth_Koont

Kawczynski, the Tory support for Orban, Brexit and your entire political past getting to you?

Keep playing the antisocial justice warrior and people *might* look the other way.


Would you care to answer the question?

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:25 - Feb 5 with 3871 viewsSwansea_Blue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:09 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue

Does it matter who said it?


Of course. We're they a commie or a Nazi?


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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:27 - Feb 5 with 3848 viewsHalf_Idiot

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:05 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue

If abuse aimed at Diane Abbot is racist in nature then of course it's racist abuse. If it's sexist in nature then of course it's sexist.


And of course I would be the first to call it out.

https://www.twtd.co.uk/forum/445906/page:1

If somebody is incredulous that a former military "man" is the victim of bullying then it's gender stereotyping.

If David Leakey was a gay woman serving in the armed forces and the same comment had been made regarding her claims of being bullied then it would be playing to the stereotype that gay women are butch.

You seem to be bending over backwards to defend Abbot's comments because she is a Labour MP. Had the same words come from a Tory then you'd now be in the middle of a 10 pager defending why you called her a fascist.

Be consistent man.
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I wouldn't call it gender stereotyping it's stereotyping based on profession.

She's not suggesting that because he's a man he can't have be bullied, she's suggesting that because he was a lieutenant he can't have been bullied. You've even supported this in the penultimate paragraph of your own comment.

I don't condone Abbott's words by the way.
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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:28 - Feb 5 with 3845 viewsDarth_Koont

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:19 - Feb 5 by chicoazul

To each according to his needs, and I am sure what John Bercow needs is a peerage and the accompanying £300 a day attendance allowance. Just think it's weird for the Maximum Still Leader to endorse such an undemocratic system.


Must admit I don't really care and am just p!ssing around.

My point is you could take it as a deeper hypocrisy if you want or as a relatively simple gesture towards Bercow who would appreciate it. If there was anyone who got their rocks off at the pomp and the traditions of the HoP it was him.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:30 - Feb 5 with 3831 viewschicoazul

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 15:28 - Feb 5 by Darth_Koont

Must admit I don't really care and am just p!ssing around.

My point is you could take it as a deeper hypocrisy if you want or as a relatively simple gesture towards Bercow who would appreciate it. If there was anyone who got their rocks off at the pomp and the traditions of the HoP it was him.


Strange how he refused to wear the Speaker's original attire then.

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