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4 years without a bet 10:12 - Jan 27 with 5767 viewsunbelievablue

I know a few of you are aware that I am a recovering gambling addict. I thought I'd share that I have now gone 4 years without placing a bet. Here's a piece I wrote a little while ago about my addiction/one of my fav episodes of the Simpsons:

https://joshwa1990.medium.com/pringfield-or-how-i-learned-to-stop-worrying-and-l

As ever, if anyone wants any advice, let me know.

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4 years without a bet on 11:49 - Jan 27 with 1802 viewsSwansea_Blue

Congratulations. And that's a great piece by the way.

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4 years without a bet on 11:50 - Jan 27 with 1794 viewsDarth_Koont

4 years without a bet on 11:33 - Jan 27 by unbelievablue

Yeah, nit-picking really I guess - don't know a great deal about him.


He became one of the key figures in the American psyche during the 60s, a bit like J Edgar Hoover, as some shadowy presence that became bigger the more reclusive he became and with the limited but strange details of his life that emerged.

So, yeah, I don’t think it was gratuitous as there’s probably an entire older generation that associate Vegas with Hughes, even before the Mafia.

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4 years without a bet on 12:25 - Jan 27 with 1733 viewsBluefish

Well done to you. Such a hard thing to do but an incredible relief and life seems a different place after. It is over 10 years for me which is incredible to think it had been that long. I wouldn't have made it through that year if I hadn't had the l intervention.

Life is so much better without gambling

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4 years without a bet on 12:27 - Jan 27 with 1749 viewsfabian_illness

Respect to you mate.
You’ve confronted it, dealt with it and can write about it.
Stay strong bud and be proud of yourself.
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4 years without a bet on 13:26 - Jan 27 with 1709 viewsChurchman

Excellent! A friend of mine many years ago was a gambling addict. It was so bad that in the end he was kind of gambling with himself on when the police would arrest him. He’d got into running bets for the kind of people you don’t want to know and stealing off his employers, all sorts of things. It destroyed his life really.

Not having an addictive personality it was impossible for me to really understand. He tried to explain what it was like and changed my views a long way away from ‘why don’t you stop’ ‘just give it up’ ‘get a grip’ etc.

In my view, gambling addicts, like alcoholics and others do need help and support and I do worry that advertising is allowed.

Once again, well done 👍🏻
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4 years without a bet on 13:29 - Jan 27 with 1698 viewsunbelievablue

4 years without a bet on 13:26 - Jan 27 by Churchman

Excellent! A friend of mine many years ago was a gambling addict. It was so bad that in the end he was kind of gambling with himself on when the police would arrest him. He’d got into running bets for the kind of people you don’t want to know and stealing off his employers, all sorts of things. It destroyed his life really.

Not having an addictive personality it was impossible for me to really understand. He tried to explain what it was like and changed my views a long way away from ‘why don’t you stop’ ‘just give it up’ ‘get a grip’ etc.

In my view, gambling addicts, like alcoholics and others do need help and support and I do worry that advertising is allowed.

Once again, well done 👍🏻
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A sad story and thanks for sharing.

Advertising is a big part of it, as is its prevalence in sport. Took me a while to disassociate sports and gambling.

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4 years without a bet on 14:11 - Jan 27 with 1655 viewsChondzoresk

I used to smoke and drink very heavily. Thankfully I have turned my back on both. While my issues were deadly, I consider what you have done to give up gambling an amazing thing to do. Gambling wrecks everything, lives, marriages, finances, I could go on. Well done, keep it up. You have my 100% support.
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4 years without a bet on 14:47 - Jan 27 with 1626 viewsArnoldMoorhen

You have my admiration, for your skill as a writer and your strength as a human being.
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4 years without a bet on 15:11 - Jan 27 with 1611 viewsSwailsey

Congratulations, thank you for sharing.

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4 years without a bet on 15:19 - Jan 27 with 1601 viewsjeera

Thanks for posting that.

I 'enjoyed' the read, having seen the episode before and it brought back some of the lines: "No, no, that's too expensive. Just don't do it anymore."

People who want to be of help but don't understand the complex nature of the compulsions, how it all works or what to do.

Seriously well done for finding the strength to just "not do it anymore."

And for the efforts you have put into the charity runs the past few years.

Lots achieved and to be proud of there.

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4 years without a bet on 15:45 - Jan 27 with 1585 viewsIpswich24

Amazing mate well done.
I am too a recovering gambling addict of nearly 2 and a half years now..It almost, almost took everything I own and love. Thankfully I have the most amazing wife..it wasn't just all about the money I lost which was into the £100,000's it was the lies the deceipt and the personality changes. I have been attending GA for 2 and half years now and have put blocks in place. I am.one of lucky ones as I have seen 1st hand what this illness can do.

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4 years without a bet on 16:17 - Jan 27 with 1551 viewshandslikeplates

That’s absolutely brilliant, a huge achievement that fills me with hope, loved the article too. 192 days for me, and there’s barely a waking moment I don’t think about it.

There’s a lot to be sad about regarding our club at the moment, but one of my lowest moments was when the club went down the betting sponsorship route, like many clubs. I just felt absolutely bombarded by it all from every angle.

Big thumbs up from me again on your achievement 👍
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4 years without a bet on 19:16 - Jan 27 with 1494 viewsGeomorph

Well done keep strong..
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4 years without a bet on 08:07 - Jan 28 with 1382 viewssolemio

Well done, Sir.

I am no church person, but I have admired the consistent campaign both on social media and in the House of Lords by the Bishop of St Albans.

This article appeared yesterday in the Herts Advertiser:

https://www.hertsad.co.uk/news/bishop-asks-fa-to-address-gambling-7075546

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4 years without a bet on 09:59 - Jan 28 with 1350 viewsshefki86

Really great stuff mate, has caused massive issues in my own family also so know exactly the damage it can do.

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