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A few weeks back someone I know applied for a food bank parcel on my behalf. In this cost of living situation it's really hard for me to afford to stick to a gluten free diet as it's so expensive. Anyway, they sorted me out with some lovely gf bits for me and I was so grateful.
I thought it was a one off but I just had a knock on the door, not only did they deliver another food parcel to me but they also gave me £20 worth of co op vouchers in a lovely Christmas card.
They really didn't have to do it a second time, let alone give me vouchers too. Its absolutely made my day and really does make you realise there are some lovely people out there.
Btw, it was Manningtree Food bank who done this for me so big up them, such lovely people
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Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:04 - Dec 14 with 1803 views
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:01 - Dec 14 by Ryorry
Let's get this clear. I've doubted you, questioned you, but offered you a way to prove yourself genuine, with an offer of a £50 donation to charity if you do. At no point have I ever been "vile" to you, "fcking" or otherwise.
Your response? You won't provide any credible validation, accuse me of abuse and "messing your head up", then threaten a flounce off the site. I've drawn my conclusions from that, and of course other people are free to form their own.
I certainly don't want to be involved with you any further & won't respond to you again, so you needn't leave the site on my account.
He's not sent me his number yet either
Pronouns: He/Him/His.
"Imagine being a heterosexual white male in Britain at this moment. How bad is that. Everything you say is racist, everything you say is homophobic. The Woke community have really f****d this country."
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:04 - Dec 14 by Blueschev
Asian?
I assume he was calling me a nonce, because I have a couple of affectionate fellas in my profile picture, despite:
1) Linking child abuse to homosexuality being a deeply offensive, untruthful and hateful trope, and;
2) There's nothing homosexual about the photo anyway!
Pronouns: He/Him/His.
"Imagine being a heterosexual white male in Britain at this moment. How bad is that. Everything you say is racist, everything you say is homophobic. The Woke community have really f****d this country."
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:01 - Dec 14 by Ryorry
Let's get this clear. I've doubted you, questioned you, but offered you a way to prove yourself genuine, with an offer of a £50 donation to charity if you do. At no point have I ever been "vile" to you, "fcking" or otherwise.
Your response? You won't provide any credible validation, accuse me of abuse and "messing your head up", then threaten a flounce off the site. I've drawn my conclusions from that, and of course other people are free to form their own.
I certainly don't want to be involved with you any further & won't respond to you again, so you needn't leave the site on my account.
1: how on earth can I prove myself? Ive given it a good shot by giving you my number and inviting you to call me for a chat, not sure if I can make a bigger effort than that tbh.
2: you may not think that the things you say are harmful but the person on the receiving end may perceive them to be vile and harmful, they just might be a weaker, more sensitive person than you are
3: I'm not leaving the site, I was just saying I'm out of here because I'm going to have a bathe and then watch the football.
I don't care that you don't like me, just leave me alone. You never see me going over your posts picking fault with everything you say. Just chill out and live and let live, seriously
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Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:14 - Dec 14 with 1716 views
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 15:55 - Dec 14 by clive_baker
Genuine question Ryorry, what would it take to represent proof? I like you, and I'm not trying to extract £50 of your hard earned for charity, but genuinely curious as to how someone goes about proving themselves on here.
Phil has already said there are ways and means of linking accounts to other posters etc and that there's nothing untoward in that respect.
A perfectly reasonable question, have PM'd you with a couple of options there would have been.
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:14 - Dec 14 by Ryorry
A perfectly reasonable question, have PM'd you with a couple of options there would have been.
I am finding it hard to understand why this guy should have to prove himself to you? If you think he is troll or fake or whatever, you could just ignore him?
"Blueas is a great guy, one of the best." - Donald Trump
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:19 - Dec 14 by bazza
Well When you put it like that, I only meant it was a bit seedy having it as an avatar..
Seedy is in the eye of the beholder Bazza!
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"Imagine being a heterosexual white male in Britain at this moment. How bad is that. Everything you say is racist, everything you say is homophobic. The Woke community have really f****d this country."
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:19 - Dec 14 by blueasfook
I am finding it hard to understand why this guy should have to prove himself to you? If you think he is troll or fake or whatever, you could just ignore him?
I didn't say he had to, what I actually said was
"I also said that if I'm wrong, I'll prolifically apologise and donate £50 to a charity of his choice, so if MMH wants to categorically prove me wrong, he can PM me."
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:39 - Dec 14 by Ryorry
I didn't say he had to, what I actually said was
"I also said that if I'm wrong, I'll prolifically apologise and donate £50 to a charity of his choice, so if MMH wants to categorically prove me wrong, he can PM me."
The onus is on you Ryorry to prove him wrong, you made the accusations. He offered to talk to you, you declined. Put up or shut up and maybe leave the guy alone as requested by him.
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Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:46 - Dec 14 with 1574 views
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:39 - Dec 14 by Ryorry
I didn't say he had to, what I actually said was
"I also said that if I'm wrong, I'll prolifically apologise and donate £50 to a charity of his choice, so if MMH wants to categorically prove me wrong, he can PM me."
If he doesn’t , can I pm you, and have the £50?
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Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:52 - Dec 14 with 1561 views
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:01 - Dec 14 by Ryorry
Let's get this clear. I've doubted you, questioned you, but offered you a way to prove yourself genuine, with an offer of a £50 donation to charity if you do. At no point have I ever been "vile" to you, "fcking" or otherwise.
Your response? You won't provide any credible validation, accuse me of abuse and "messing your head up", then threaten a flounce off the site. I've drawn my conclusions from that, and of course other people are free to form their own.
I certainly don't want to be involved with you any further & won't respond to you again, so you needn't leave the site on my account.
Really not trying to start anything but you have posted repeatedly about how much you value your privacy. There is no reason for him to prove himself to you.
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:46 - Dec 14 by Zapers
The onus is on you Ryorry to prove him wrong, you made the accusations. He offered to talk to you, you declined. Put up or shut up and maybe leave the guy alone as requested by him.
I'd already said I was ignoring him from now on, but you obviously can't resist sticking your oar in to sh1tstir.
Pretty ridiculous also to tell me to prove him wrong when he's completely anonymous & won't provide any details. And no I, an elderly female am not going to get drawn into a phonecall with him, I'd have thought you'd be far too sensible to advocate that, but hey ho.
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 16:52 - Dec 14 by J2BLUE
Really not trying to start anything but you have posted repeatedly about how much you value your privacy. There is no reason for him to prove himself to you.
Your last line is the solution.
Since some people including you appear unable to read what I've already said, I'll repeat it for a third time -
"I didn't say he had to, what I actually said was
"I also said that if I'm wrong, I'll prolifically apologise and donate £50 to a charity of his choice, so if MMH wants to categorically prove me wrong, he can PM me."
He could easily have proved me wrong - if he'd wanted to (& was genuine).
Yes I do value my privacy. That's why I said PMs only.
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 17:03 - Dec 14 by Ryorry
Since some people including you appear unable to read what I've already said, I'll repeat it for a third time -
"I didn't say he had to, what I actually said was
"I also said that if I'm wrong, I'll prolifically apologise and donate £50 to a charity of his choice, so if MMH wants to categorically prove me wrong, he can PM me."
He could easily have proved me wrong - if he'd wanted to (& was genuine).
Yes I do value my privacy. That's why I said PMs only.
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Oh dear, that holes getting bigger🤣
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Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 17:13 - Dec 14 with 1487 views
Just want to share this heart warming thing that happened to me on 17:42 - Dec 13 by MalcolmMeatballHead
If you believe I was being serious when I posted about winning the lottery then get a grip
For goodness sake, I was only sharing a nice story in all innocence. Some of you lot are not very nice people. Wish I hadn't bothered now
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In the spirit of reconciliation and happiness at the end of the Banter Era (RIP) and as a result of promotion I have cleared out my ignore list. Look forwards to reading your posts!