| FFS 23:53 - Sep 23 with 8664 views | PhilTWTD | Really not going to put up with the same people misusing this Forum and wasting my time. Those posters have had enough warnings and take no notice, so really can't come as any surprise. |  | | |  |
| FFS on 08:06 - Sep 24 with 1473 views | Mullet |
| FFS on 07:39 - Sep 24 by Dubtractor | Just give the offenders a 2 week sin bin until the football starts again. This happens every international break, without fail. Thoughts and prayers with you at this difficult time, Phil. |
You’ve got something in your beard mate x [Post edited 24 Sep 8:06]
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| FFS on 08:12 - Sep 24 with 1429 views | Bluemike31 | Maybe just keeping the forum to Football chat is the way to go. I mean, politics, Israel, Immigration, Letby, it rarely ends well. |  | |  |
| FFS on 08:13 - Sep 24 with 1425 views | DanTheMan |
Only if there's eye contact. |  |
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| FFS on 08:14 - Sep 24 with 1430 views | The_Flashing_Smile |
| FFS on 00:10 - Sep 24 by The_Romford_Blue | Respectfully - Phil said stop. So I’ve stopped. Let’s both leave it there. We both know the game. And I actually don’t like seeing posters banned. Including you. So I don’t want either of us to talk ourselves into a first booking. Or a straight red. I do hope the VAR panel have a look at the Sitters sending off though. I think it’s clumsy. And it’s clearly wreckless. But there’s not huge intent there and it’s lacking the force for me for it to be a red. Maybe a yellow and subbed off temporarily for his own sake but you hate to see those players who have that flair and creativity to really bring some excitement to the fans end their season in that manner. [Post edited 24 Sep 0:21]
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I think Stokers is entitled to defend himself rather than you having your say and THEN the argument has to stop! |  |
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| FFS on 08:15 - Sep 24 with 1413 views | The_Flashing_Smile |
| FFS on 00:05 - Sep 24 by StokieBlue | What are you on about? I never claimed you were chucked from here, you're complaining about factually incorrect posts whilst literally making stuff up. You piled into that thread saying some get more leeway than others and made it perfectly clear who you meant with the signature. The innocence act is both insulting and ridiculous as is rewriting history whilst complaining about non-existent rewriting of history. Just because you're upset that sitters can't control himself doesn't mean you have to target me. As I said, I've not had an issue with you and your attack from nowhere was uncalled for. SB [Post edited 24 Sep 0:08]
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I know you don't make stuff up Stokers, so it's interesting to see the usual suspects downvoting this. |  |
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| FFS on 08:26 - Sep 24 with 1336 views | DJR | There have been occasions recently when I've been minded to give up on TWTD because of the nasty nature of debate on threads like the pulled one. Some people don't debate the issue but instead resort to personal abuse which often seem related to grievances they have due to previous interactions presumably over many years. Bearing grudges, ganging up with others, bringing up past comments or interactions and being truculent is very childish, and I think that there are some on here who need to take a long, hard look a themselves. I might add that I wouldn't have put Sitters in this category, but I don't know what went on that led to his ban. And I will especially miss his posting of away ticket information. Any volunteers to take his place? [Post edited 24 Sep 8:33]
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| FFS on 08:33 - Sep 24 with 1273 views | Benters |
| FFS on 08:15 - Sep 24 by The_Flashing_Smile | I know you don't make stuff up Stokers, so it's interesting to see the usual suspects downvoting this. |
‘The usual suspects’ I haven’t voted either way maybe I should just to balance it out a bit |  |
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| FFS on 08:42 - Sep 24 with 1230 views | homer_123 |
| FFS on 08:12 - Sep 24 by Bluemike31 | Maybe just keeping the forum to Football chat is the way to go. I mean, politics, Israel, Immigration, Letby, it rarely ends well. |
No, it doesn't. But it's important to learn to discuss emotive and controversial subjects in a open, honest, fair and equitable way that doesn't lead to personal attacks or comments. [Post edited 24 Sep 8:46]
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| FFS on 08:44 - Sep 24 with 1203 views | Swailsey |
| FFS on 08:42 - Sep 24 by homer_123 | No, it doesn't. But it's important to learn to discuss emotive and controversial subjects in a open, honest, fair and equitable way that doesn't lead to personal attacks or comments. [Post edited 24 Sep 8:46]
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| Who said: "Colin Healy made Cesc Fabregas look like Colin Healy"? | We miss you TLA |
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| FFS on 08:47 - Sep 24 with 1178 views | homer_123 |
| FFS on 08:44 - Sep 24 by Swailsey | Don't be a reasonable d*ck. |
Funnily enough, my ex always wanted more from me. |  |
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| FFS on 08:51 - Sep 24 with 1166 views | homer_123 |
| FFS on 08:26 - Sep 24 by DJR | There have been occasions recently when I've been minded to give up on TWTD because of the nasty nature of debate on threads like the pulled one. Some people don't debate the issue but instead resort to personal abuse which often seem related to grievances they have due to previous interactions presumably over many years. Bearing grudges, ganging up with others, bringing up past comments or interactions and being truculent is very childish, and I think that there are some on here who need to take a long, hard look a themselves. I might add that I wouldn't have put Sitters in this category, but I don't know what went on that led to his ban. And I will especially miss his posting of away ticket information. Any volunteers to take his place? [Post edited 24 Sep 8:33]
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Hadn't realised Sitters had been red carded. Genuinely, I asked him if he was OK, as he had seemed to got himself royally worked up on here over the past couple of days. I didn't see the thread(s) last night, so not sure what has gone on or with whom. I value this forum massively - although I don't think I have met anyone in the flesh from here, there are a lot of diverse people who's musing and meanderings I find amusing, supportive, insightful etc. Over the years, this has been a good place for me to spend time and I would hate to see people leave etc. Hope everyone is OK. [Post edited 24 Sep 9:09]
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| FFS on 08:52 - Sep 24 with 1131 views | baxterbasics |
| FFS on 08:12 - Sep 24 by Bluemike31 | Maybe just keeping the forum to Football chat is the way to go. I mean, politics, Israel, Immigration, Letby, it rarely ends well. |
That's not really fair on the majority who are able to discuss these things in at least semi-civilised manner and would like to continue to do so. Filters and the blocking facility are there for a reason. Besides, posts about the footy can get just as contentious, especially when Town lose, which is going to happen plenty this season! |  |
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| FFS on 08:56 - Sep 24 with 1087 views | homer_123 |
| FFS on 08:52 - Sep 24 by baxterbasics | That's not really fair on the majority who are able to discuss these things in at least semi-civilised manner and would like to continue to do so. Filters and the blocking facility are there for a reason. Besides, posts about the footy can get just as contentious, especially when Town lose, which is going to happen plenty this season! |
Heresy!!! Those last seven words...how very dare you! |  |
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| FFS on 09:08 - Sep 24 with 1028 views | baxterbasics |
| FFS on 08:56 - Sep 24 by homer_123 | Heresy!!! Those last seven words...how very dare you! |
I would be very happy to be proven wrong! |  |
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| FFS on 09:12 - Sep 24 with 1007 views | DJR |
| FFS on 08:52 - Sep 24 by baxterbasics | That's not really fair on the majority who are able to discuss these things in at least semi-civilised manner and would like to continue to do so. Filters and the blocking facility are there for a reason. Besides, posts about the footy can get just as contentious, especially when Town lose, which is going to happen plenty this season! |
The problem though is that a thread like yesterday's, peppered with petty grievances and the like, stops people like me (and maybe you) from even bothering to contribute. [Post edited 24 Sep 9:13]
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| FFS on 09:20 - Sep 24 with 967 views | SuperKieranMcKenna |
| FFS on 09:12 - Sep 24 by DJR | The problem though is that a thread like yesterday's, peppered with petty grievances and the like, stops people like me (and maybe you) from even bothering to contribute. [Post edited 24 Sep 9:13]
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Indeed there’s effectively two rival groups of posters on here - it’s like bloods v crips (albeit a middle class version)! Ed Sheeran thread was a classic example, stopped being about the subject about half way through the many pages, the thread pull was inevitable. |  | |  |
| FFS on 09:20 - Sep 24 with 961 views | Guthrum |
| FFS on 08:12 - Sep 24 by Bluemike31 | Maybe just keeping the forum to Football chat is the way to go. I mean, politics, Israel, Immigration, Letby, it rarely ends well. |
TWTD would lose a lot by becoming solely about the football, rather than a meeting place for ITFC fans to discuss whatever they feel like. Plus, as others have said, it'd be very unlikely to prevent arguments. In any case, there is a football-only filter for users. |  |
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| FFS on 09:22 - Sep 24 with 948 views | _CliveBaker_ |
| FFS on 08:12 - Sep 24 by Bluemike31 | Maybe just keeping the forum to Football chat is the way to go. I mean, politics, Israel, Immigration, Letby, it rarely ends well. |
We could also remove every wall in the country to prevent graffiti, but the better solution is probably for people to not act like idiots. |  | |  |
| FFS on 09:29 - Sep 24 with 897 views | Bluemike31 |
| FFS on 09:22 - Sep 24 by _CliveBaker_ | We could also remove every wall in the country to prevent graffiti, but the better solution is probably for people to not act like idiots. |
But you know as well as I do that is not going to happen, so many juveniles on here it is untrue. Maybe another option would be to divide the forum up, a football section and a "general" section for everything else, then those that just want football chat don't have to view all the other stuff, and yes I know you don't have to click on the other threads but the temptation is always there, I vowed not to go on the Letby thread but still did it anyway because it was right in front of me. |  | |  |
| FFS on 09:31 - Sep 24 with 885 views | DropCliffsNotBombs |
| FFS on 09:29 - Sep 24 by Bluemike31 | But you know as well as I do that is not going to happen, so many juveniles on here it is untrue. Maybe another option would be to divide the forum up, a football section and a "general" section for everything else, then those that just want football chat don't have to view all the other stuff, and yes I know you don't have to click on the other threads but the temptation is always there, I vowed not to go on the Letby thread but still did it anyway because it was right in front of me. |
That's exactly what there is bud. Top of the main forum page you can filter by all, football or general. |  | |  |
| FFS on 09:37 - Sep 24 with 857 views | vapour_trail |
| FFS on 09:22 - Sep 24 by _CliveBaker_ | We could also remove every wall in the country to prevent graffiti, but the better solution is probably for people to not act like idiots. |
Why would you want to prevent graffiti? |  |
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| FFS on 09:47 - Sep 24 with 803 views | Pinewoodblue | It shouldn’t be necessary but is there any way you, or Gav, can limit a poster just to football threads. I, like many others, avoid commenting on posts that turn into a mud slinging contest. Let Sitters back on when the football season restarts. |  |
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| FFS on 10:02 - Sep 24 with 751 views | Bluemike31 |
| FFS on 09:31 - Sep 24 by DropCliffsNotBombs | That's exactly what there is bud. Top of the main forum page you can filter by all, football or general. |
Oh cheers for that, I had never even noticed it !!! |  | |  |
| FFS on 10:04 - Sep 24 with 749 views | baxterbasics |
| FFS on 09:12 - Sep 24 by DJR | The problem though is that a thread like yesterday's, peppered with petty grievances and the like, stops people like me (and maybe you) from even bothering to contribute. [Post edited 24 Sep 9:13]
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I tend to just ignore it, I get a headache trying to figure out who is on what side or who is targeting who. If a thread hasn't completely runaway from the original point I'll add my opinion on the matter and accept all the uppies and downies coming my way (top tip: never take these personally). If someone throws a personal barb my way, oh well. I did get bizarrely labelled a Nazi recently for daring to give my view on the practicality of international power structures regarding the Israel/Palestine situation, thankfully Mr Ham nipped that in the bud pretty fast. |  |
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