| Important parenting lesson learnt today 15:39 - Jun 23 with 2718 views | giant_stow |
If your son, who keeps swearing at you to be deliberately naughty cos hes just learnt cuss words, calls you a rude word, don't call him a 'little sh1t' back, even if you meant it light-heartedly.
He's just got home and is still cross with me.
I appreciate that most people don't need to learn this lesson, but today I did.
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 15:55 - Jun 23 with 2618 views | J2BLUE |
He's much respected on here for opting against supporting Norwich. |  |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 15:57 - Jun 23 with 2605 views | giant_stow |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 15:55 - Jun 23 by J2BLUE |
He's much respected on here for opting against supporting Norwich. |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 15:57 - Jun 23 with 2603 views | HARRY10 |
cuss words ?
what be they ? |  | | |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:01 - Jun 23 with 2576 views | giant_stow |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 15:57 - Jun 23 by HARRY10 |
cuss words ?
what be they ? |
Swear words innit. | |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:08 - Jun 23 with 2550 views | hoppy |
"You're just scum", whilst not very pleasant to hear coming from one so young, isn't actually swearing. I suggest you suck it up and accept he's got his head screwed on. |  |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:14 - Jun 23 with 2531 views | Pendejo |
Rather than swearing at my offspring I found giving a few lashes of a heavy leather belt worked.
Now they are adults I reap my reward as they queue up to give me a hiding...
Kidding of course, only 1 of my 4 swears regularly but he's definitely on the autistic scale and loses his temper way too easily. |  |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:22 - Jun 23 with 2485 views | giant_stow |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:14 - Jun 23 by Pendejo |
Rather than swearing at my offspring I found giving a few lashes of a heavy leather belt worked.
Now they are adults I reap my reward as they queue up to give me a hiding...
Kidding of course, only 1 of my 4 swears regularly but he's definitely on the autistic scale and loses his temper way too easily. |
Arf!
My littleun is almost swearing out of habit now, despite everything we've tried to teach him. I spose my cock-up will have set the cause back by months now.
All the best to your possibly autistic boy. | |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:23 - Jun 23 with 2482 views | gtsb1966 |
I swore at my mum once and when my dad came home he gave me a whack. I never did it again. That was forty five years ago when I was ten years old. Good old fashioned discipline in those days which worked. |  | | |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:26 - Jun 23 with 2463 views | hoppy |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:22 - Jun 23 by giant_stow |
Arf!
My littleun is almost swearing out of habit now, despite everything we've tried to teach him. I spose my cock-up will have set the cause back by months now.
All the best to your possibly autistic boy. |
Is it things like "F-sake... do we have to watch that crap at Carrot Road again next season? They're f-in useless whenever they're promoted... Can't we just give it a miss and wait until we've plummeted back into the f-in championship again?" | |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:27 - Jun 23 with 2453 views | hype313 |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:22 - Jun 23 by giant_stow |
Arf!
My littleun is almost swearing out of habit now, despite everything we've tried to teach him. I spose my cock-up will have set the cause back by months now.
All the best to your possibly autistic boy. |
"I spose my cock-up will have set the cause back by months now."
Crikey, you lot are starting younger these days.... |  |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:29 - Jun 23 with 2445 views | giant_stow |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:23 - Jun 23 by gtsb1966 |
I swore at my mum once and when my dad came home he gave me a whack. I never did it again. That was forty five years ago when I was ten years old. Good old fashioned discipline in those days which worked. |
Ouch, but I can see why it worked tbh. That's not to condone it and I'd never hit mine, but what do you do if they just won't stop? | |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:30 - Jun 23 with 2440 views | giant_stow |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:27 - Jun 23 by hype313 |
"I spose my cock-up will have set the cause back by months now."
Crikey, you lot are starting younger these days.... |
I'm willing to accept all beats on this! | |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:31 - Jun 23 with 2436 views | hoppy |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:29 - Jun 23 by giant_stow |
Ouch, but I can see why it worked tbh. That's not to condone it and I'd never hit mine, but what do you do if they just won't stop? |
Ask him if he wants to feel the back of your hand if he keeps doing it... that's not actually doing it, but the threat being there might make him think twice about it? | |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:34 - Jun 23 with 2410 views | giant_stow |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:31 - Jun 23 by hoppy |
Ask him if he wants to feel the back of your hand if he keeps doing it... that's not actually doing it, but the threat being there might make him think twice about it? |
Mrs Ullaa would skin me alive just for the talk. | |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:40 - Jun 23 with 2381 views | Seablu |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:34 - Jun 23 by giant_stow |
Mrs Ullaa would skin me alive just for the talk. |
You need to tell your sister to butt out.
Too many cooks… |  | | |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 17:09 - Jun 23 with 2307 views | hoppy |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:34 - Jun 23 by giant_stow |
Mrs Ullaa would skin me alive just for the talk. |
You should say that you just don't tolerate swearing, and although you don't like resorting to violence, you weren't afraid to give your sister a banging when she used to say "F*** me!" all the time... | |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 18:32 - Jun 23 with 2236 views | GeoffSentence |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:23 - Jun 23 by gtsb1966 |
I swore at my mum once and when my dad came home he gave me a whack. I never did it again. That was forty five years ago when I was ten years old. Good old fashioned discipline in those days which worked. |
The lesson may have been well learned for you, but the trouble is that for many the lesson learned would be that violence gets you what you want. |  |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 18:45 - Jun 23 with 2205 views | Ryorry |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 18:32 - Jun 23 by GeoffSentence |
The lesson may have been well learned for you, but the trouble is that for many the lesson learned would be that violence gets you what you want. |
Or potentially gets you a stroke if one of the blows hits the side of your head - as I found out about 40 years later ... |  |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 18:48 - Jun 23 with 2195 views | LeoMuff |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 16:31 - Jun 23 by hoppy |
Ask him if he wants to feel the back of your hand if he keeps doing it... that's not actually doing it, but the threat being there might make him think twice about it? |
If he calls your bluff you have a problem... |  |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 19:24 - Jun 23 with 2109 views | Swansea_Blue |
We've just just found out our lad (13) is using some rather ripe words on his friends Whatsapp group. His mum is livid, with me. And I can't blame her as I swear like a trooper, so it's really hard when she tells me I 'have to have a word' with him. Mainly because most of my words are four letter ones, so I'm hardly a role model.
I'm going to hate being a parent to teenagers. Too late to pull out I suppose?  |  |
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| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 19:42 - Jun 23 with 2077 views | dickie |
| Important parenting lesson learnt today on 19:24 - Jun 23 by Swansea_Blue |
We've just just found out our lad (13) is using some rather ripe words on his friends Whatsapp group. His mum is livid, with me. And I can't blame her as I swear like a trooper, so it's really hard when she tells me I 'have to have a word' with him. Mainly because most of my words are four letter ones, so I'm hardly a role model.
I'm going to hate being a parent to teenagers. Too late to pull out I suppose? |
The withdrawal method would have never worked | | | |
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