Our little boy would've been 5 today... 14:07 - Jun 6 with 3615 views | hoppy | Happy birthday CT. Love, Daddy x (sorry for posting it here, but I know a lot of you have known the background, and it helps me to be able to post in recognition somewhere and I don't like to do it on facebook and suchlike) | |
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Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 14:10 - Jun 6 with 3325 views | Keno | thinking of you Hops Hows KJ? | |
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Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 14:16 - Jun 6 with 3299 views | Ryorry | No need to apologise. Hugs | |
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Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 14:33 - Jun 6 with 3231 views | PJH | As Ryorry says, you have nothing to apologise for. Thinking of you and KJ. The little brother that Yasmin would have adored. | | | |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 14:35 - Jun 6 with 3218 views | jeera | Thoughts are with you all mate. x | |
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Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 14:35 - Jun 6 with 3209 views | GlasgowBlue | Thoughts are with you and the family as always Hoppy on this very difficult day. | |
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Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 15:06 - Jun 6 with 3158 views | blueislander |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 14:35 - Jun 6 by GlasgowBlue | Thoughts are with you and the family as always Hoppy on this very difficult day. |
My very best wishes and thoughts are with the three of . I remember swapping experiences with you, and although mine is a very long time past, I think I know how you are feeling. Take care of your ladies. | | | |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 16:08 - Jun 6 with 3054 views | catch74 | Thoughts with you Hoppy. | |
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Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 16:12 - Jun 6 with 3046 views | Shawsey | Our thoughts are with you and your family. xx | | | | Login to get fewer ads
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 16:16 - Jun 6 with 3036 views | BlueBadger | There's a Virtual Hug to you and yours from all of us at Badger Acres on its way. | |
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Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 17:01 - Jun 6 with 2985 views | DebsyAngel | Hugs to you and Kelly Jo on this sad day xx | | | |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 17:04 - Jun 6 with 2970 views | OsborneOneNil | Thoughts are with you guys, Hoppy. | | | |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 17:04 - Jun 6 with 2970 views | clive_baker | No need to apologise at all. Happy birthday little man. All the best. | |
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Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 17:22 - Jun 6 with 2941 views | RedWhiteAndBLUE | Thinking of you all. 👠| | | |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 17:49 - Jun 6 with 2914 views | sohamblue74 | All the best Hoppy and family. A brave post at what must be such a difficult time. It is healthy to share and vent your feelings. Clearly a lot of love and respect for you and yours here on TWTD. Stay strong. Thinking of you all. | | | |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 17:57 - Jun 6 with 2902 views | Tractorboy24 | Thoughts with you. You don’t need to apologise either, I don’t know the story behind what happened, but my youngest was 8 weeks early, and spent the next 4 weeks in Framingham Ward. This ended up being a time where I wrote most on Twitter, just because writing my feelings down allowed me to vent. He’s now 2 and as normal as can be (well, as normal as anyone related to me can be). | | | |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 18:00 - Jun 6 with 2896 views | vapour_trail | Love to you all hoppy x | |
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Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 18:21 - Jun 6 with 2866 views | hoppy | Thank you all for the kind words and wishes. Just got back in the car out of the rain at the cemetery, having come here with Yasmin to bring some flowers (blue and white, or as close to them as I could get!) and a couple of birthday cards. Yasmin told him to have a good party, and I told him to go and find Sir Bobby if he wants to hear some great stories - but not to expect him to get his name right!! | |
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Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 18:22 - Jun 6 with 2858 views | Joey_Joe_Joe_Junior | All the best. | | | |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 19:21 - Jun 6 with 2786 views | eastangliaisblue |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 18:21 - Jun 6 by hoppy | Thank you all for the kind words and wishes. Just got back in the car out of the rain at the cemetery, having come here with Yasmin to bring some flowers (blue and white, or as close to them as I could get!) and a couple of birthday cards. Yasmin told him to have a good party, and I told him to go and find Sir Bobby if he wants to hear some great stories - but not to expect him to get his name right!! |
My heart goes out to you and your family. | | | |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 22:26 - Jun 6 with 2684 views | Epiphone | Nothing we can say will alleviate your pain but our thoughts are with you. | | | |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 23:23 - Jun 6 with 2641 views | WednesdayJon | My heart goes out to you and your family Hoppy, I cannot even begin to imagine the pain and anguish you have been through or continue to go through. I hope that you may gain some small comfort from the fact that so many people acknowledge your pain, and send our thoughts, love & deepest sympathy to you and yours at times such as this. | | | |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 23:23 - Jun 6 with 2640 views | linhdi | Don't ever stop posting... | | | |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 23:29 - Jun 6 with 2634 views | WeWereZombies | I had a sister who never made it past her first few hours, more than sixty years on now but I still wonder how life would have been better for my family if the girl had lived as my mum never really got over the event. As blueislander said, we need to look after our ladies (even if we cannot fully know what they go through). Stay strong mate. | |
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Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 15:03 - Jun 7 with 2466 views | hoppy |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 23:29 - Jun 6 by WeWereZombies | I had a sister who never made it past her first few hours, more than sixty years on now but I still wonder how life would have been better for my family if the girl had lived as my mum never really got over the event. As blueislander said, we need to look after our ladies (even if we cannot fully know what they go through). Stay strong mate. |
Thanks for this. Absolutely. I’m very grateful that I’ve still got both of them to look after - particularly after how close, without realising quite how close, I came to potentially having to deal with KJ going to look after CT... it makes you appreciate and make the most of your loved ones! Yes, it’s often in mind how life would’ve been different, and how Yasmin would’ve been with a little brother as well as her 3 older ones, but something we’ll never know. It’s not surprising your mum didn’t get over the loss. KJ also found yesterday a struggle and hit her very hard. She actually posted on Facebook about him with a picture for the first time too. I think for her, as me posting on here, was a help to cope - and feel she may be ready to get counselling to help her further deal with the loss. I’ve been choked with reading the responses on here above. Including WednesdayJon - who isn’t even a town fan - but his comments meant a lot too, as it goes to show how wide our TWTD community actually is! | |
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Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 15:13 - Jun 7 with 2441 views | jeera |
Our little boy would've been 5 today... on 15:03 - Jun 7 by hoppy | Thanks for this. Absolutely. I’m very grateful that I’ve still got both of them to look after - particularly after how close, without realising quite how close, I came to potentially having to deal with KJ going to look after CT... it makes you appreciate and make the most of your loved ones! Yes, it’s often in mind how life would’ve been different, and how Yasmin would’ve been with a little brother as well as her 3 older ones, but something we’ll never know. It’s not surprising your mum didn’t get over the loss. KJ also found yesterday a struggle and hit her very hard. She actually posted on Facebook about him with a picture for the first time too. I think for her, as me posting on here, was a help to cope - and feel she may be ready to get counselling to help her further deal with the loss. I’ve been choked with reading the responses on here above. Including WednesdayJon - who isn’t even a town fan - but his comments meant a lot too, as it goes to show how wide our TWTD community actually is! |
Hops, my mum is now 82 mate. Every single year my sister and I leave her alone to mourn the loss of her twins on their birthday. She still wants to be left be on that one day of the year and I fully understand and respect that. | |
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