I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? 17:45 - Jan 5 with 5185 views | Dubtractor | Just joking, popped on a couple of times and decided to give it a swerve. My thoughts and prayers are with Phil at this difficult (tedious) time. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 18:57 - Jan 5 with 1797 views | SpruceMoose | Keep on stirring lads - you might get another couple of scalps before the day is out! |  |
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"Imagine being a heterosexual white male in Britain at this moment. How bad is that. Everything you say is racist, everything you say is homophobic. The Woke community have really f****d this country." | Poll: | Selectamod |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 18:59 - Jan 5 with 1789 views | SitfcB |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 18:56 - Jan 5 by monytowbray | Phil can’t indulge me because he’s wrong and his handling of this situation will age like milk. I can’t win with you, can I? I’m somehow a Slacktivist and a Martyr all at once. Weird that you, a self proclaimed anti-racist, are no where to be seen when your forum pals start being transphobic yet again. Don’t worry, we’ll add it to the tab of your excellent record of siding with history. |
Haven’t you chilled out yet ffs Sure GB said that with tongue firmly in cheek. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:00 - Jan 5 with 1775 views | clive_baker | I still don't know who we've lost today |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:03 - Jan 5 with 1739 views | monytowbray |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 18:59 - Jan 5 by SitfcB | Haven’t you chilled out yet ffs Sure GB said that with tongue firmly in cheek. |
Yeah but back to the BANTZ debate, I am not friends with GB, nor do I appreciate him hugely misrepresenting the fact all I’ve done is call out transphobia where it is present. I’m sure if a group of posters were repeatedly posting about the dangers of Jewish people in society and I functioned by his MO he’d be demanding I am banned. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:06 - Jan 5 with 1726 views | monytowbray |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:00 - Jan 5 by clive_baker | I still don't know who we've lost today |
Same TBF. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:12 - Jan 5 with 1713 views | SpruceMoose |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:06 - Jan 5 by monytowbray | Same TBF. |
Jeera. After months and months of prodding and sniping, certain posters got the reaction out of him they were hoping for. Bet they couldn't believe their luck. Cue the feigned outrage and red card waving. No idea if he quit or was banned. I'm sure they'll be along en masse to respond to this post in a similar manner shortly. Utterly predictable. They'll move onto another target soon enough. Most likely Stokie - although that one is already well underway. [Post edited 5 Jan 2023 19:13]
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"Imagine being a heterosexual white male in Britain at this moment. How bad is that. Everything you say is racist, everything you say is homophobic. The Woke community have really f****d this country." | Poll: | Selectamod |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:18 - Jan 5 with 1679 views | GlasgowBlue |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:03 - Jan 5 by monytowbray | Yeah but back to the BANTZ debate, I am not friends with GB, nor do I appreciate him hugely misrepresenting the fact all I’ve done is call out transphobia where it is present. I’m sure if a group of posters were repeatedly posting about the dangers of Jewish people in society and I functioned by his MO he’d be demanding I am banned. |
Nobody has said that Trans people are a danger to society though. They have said that non trans people who are predatory men may use laws designed to be more inclusive to trans people as a way to carry out sexual abuse on women. That isn't being transphobic. I don't believe the stats back up their fears and I prefer to debate those fears rather than label them as transphobic. Other posters managed to do so without continually abusing them. My view is consistent. The trans Bill in Scotland by GlasgowBlue 23 Dec 2022 8:20How the heck has this been reported for abuse? It’s not much different to badger posting “Congratulations on securing your first ten-pager to get pulled by Phil”.
Getting back to the op. There is a big divide in Scotland over this legislation with those who object being in the majority. So credit to the Scottish government for not taking the easy option and pressing ahead with what they believe to be right.
Objection to the bill seem to fall into two catorfories. Those who shout ‘stop the world I want to get off’ because they simply can’t get their heads around the idea of Trans people, and those people (mostly women) who have genuine concerns for the safety of womens spaces. I can’t imagine being a vulnerable woman who has been the victim of sexual abuse and those women shouldn’t be dismissed as being anti trans. They are entitled to be listened to.
Their main concern is the short time that somebody somebody is required to self identify as a woman before being able to legally change this status. On the flip side, for somebody who has been born into the wrong body they have been waiting their entire life for this moment.
With regards to the issue of safety, last month, a UN special rapporteur on violence against women and girls, warned the Scottish bill could endanger women. Reem Alsalem said it "would potentially open the door for violent males who identify as men to abuse the process of acquiring a gender certificate and the rights that are associated with it". On the flip side, the UN's independent expert on protection against violence and discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity, Victor Madrigal-Borloz said on Friday: “There are no administrative or judicial findings that validate the idea that the risk of abuse is a material one.”
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-63993415
So the debate is way too complicated for a group of mostly heterosexual men on a football message board. And is bound to descend into name calling. Which is a shame as there is a genuine debate to be had, and if people can refrain from name calling and are respectful then there is no reason it shouldn’t be had.
My own opinion is that all human beings deserve respect and should be allowed to live their lives with dignity. They should not be discriminated against because of their race, colour, religion, sexuality or gender. Just like I can’t imagine being a woman who has been the victim of sexual abuse, I can’t imagine what it’s like to spend formative years trapped in the wrong body. And if this legislation helps people to be able to live their lives as the person they want to be then it can only be positive. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t also listen to women and address their concerns.
Probably a bit of a heavy and rambling post for this turn of the morning but I’m basically having the debate inside my own head.
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:24 - Jan 5 with 1661 views | monytowbray |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:18 - Jan 5 by GlasgowBlue | Nobody has said that Trans people are a danger to society though. They have said that non trans people who are predatory men may use laws designed to be more inclusive to trans people as a way to carry out sexual abuse on women. That isn't being transphobic. I don't believe the stats back up their fears and I prefer to debate those fears rather than label them as transphobic. Other posters managed to do so without continually abusing them. My view is consistent. The trans Bill in Scotland by GlasgowBlue 23 Dec 2022 8:20How the heck has this been reported for abuse? It’s not much different to badger posting “Congratulations on securing your first ten-pager to get pulled by Phil”.
Getting back to the op. There is a big divide in Scotland over this legislation with those who object being in the majority. So credit to the Scottish government for not taking the easy option and pressing ahead with what they believe to be right.
Objection to the bill seem to fall into two catorfories. Those who shout ‘stop the world I want to get off’ because they simply can’t get their heads around the idea of Trans people, and those people (mostly women) who have genuine concerns for the safety of womens spaces. I can’t imagine being a vulnerable woman who has been the victim of sexual abuse and those women shouldn’t be dismissed as being anti trans. They are entitled to be listened to.
Their main concern is the short time that somebody somebody is required to self identify as a woman before being able to legally change this status. On the flip side, for somebody who has been born into the wrong body they have been waiting their entire life for this moment.
With regards to the issue of safety, last month, a UN special rapporteur on violence against women and girls, warned the Scottish bill could endanger women. Reem Alsalem said it "would potentially open the door for violent males who identify as men to abuse the process of acquiring a gender certificate and the rights that are associated with it". On the flip side, the UN's independent expert on protection against violence and discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity, Victor Madrigal-Borloz said on Friday: “There are no administrative or judicial findings that validate the idea that the risk of abuse is a material one.”
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-63993415
So the debate is way too complicated for a group of mostly heterosexual men on a football message board. And is bound to descend into name calling. Which is a shame as there is a genuine debate to be had, and if people can refrain from name calling and are respectful then there is no reason it shouldn’t be had.
My own opinion is that all human beings deserve respect and should be allowed to live their lives with dignity. They should not be discriminated against because of their race, colour, religion, sexuality or gender. Just like I can’t imagine being a woman who has been the victim of sexual abuse, I can’t imagine what it’s like to spend formative years trapped in the wrong body. And if this legislation helps people to be able to live their lives as the person they want to be then it can only be positive. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t also listen to women and address their concerns.
Probably a bit of a heavy and rambling post for this turn of the morning but I’m basically having the debate inside my own head.
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Yes they have. Repeatedly. For getting into a year at least. Your views have been consistent, alas you have largely been AWOL for large chunks of the discussion. But you then pile in with crap like claiming calling out comparisons with trans folk and child sex offenders is trying to Martyr onesself and denying the transphobia has been posted in the first place. What’s to debate between a fact and a lie? Or decency and bigotry? I’d expect a self-proclaimed anti-racist to get this. If the stats don’t add up in your view, why debate it? The stats don’t add up for holocaust denialism or flat earth either but I expect you’d suffer fools lightly on those topics. So why is it okay to push/debate lies in the trans rights space? For a change, this isn’t a pop at you. I think I have raised some valid points to show how your post is flawed. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:29 - Jan 5 with 1648 views | clive_baker |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:12 - Jan 5 by SpruceMoose | Jeera. After months and months of prodding and sniping, certain posters got the reaction out of him they were hoping for. Bet they couldn't believe their luck. Cue the feigned outrage and red card waving. No idea if he quit or was banned. I'm sure they'll be along en masse to respond to this post in a similar manner shortly. Utterly predictable. They'll move onto another target soon enough. Most likely Stokie - although that one is already well underway. [Post edited 5 Jan 2023 19:13]
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That’s a shame, I have a lot of time for Jeera. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:53 - Jan 5 with 1577 views | SitfcB |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:29 - Jan 5 by clive_baker | That’s a shame, I have a lot of time for Jeera. |
Yeah but you can’t go round calling people a paedophile. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:55 - Jan 5 with 1578 views | bluelagos |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:29 - Jan 5 by clive_baker | That’s a shame, I have a lot of time for Jeera. |
Same. Missed the posts but I think Jeera is defo one of the good guys. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:56 - Jan 5 with 1566 views | monytowbray |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:55 - Jan 5 by bluelagos | Same. Missed the posts but I think Jeera is defo one of the good guys. |
He did go in a bit hard. No need for the nonce remark, calling it out for plain misogyny would have been accurate. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:29 - Jan 5 with 1446 views | factual_blue |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:29 - Jan 5 by clive_baker | That’s a shame, I have a lot of time for Jeera. |
Likewise. I hope he returns before long. He's a good person. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:30 - Jan 5 with 1437 views | factual_blue |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:53 - Jan 5 by SitfcB | Yeah but you can’t go round calling people a paedophile. |
elon musk can. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:47 - Jan 5 with 1392 views | monytowbray |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:30 - Jan 5 by factual_blue | elon musk can. |
As can many of our resident transphobes apparently. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:52 - Jan 5 with 1379 views | blueasfook |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:47 - Jan 5 by monytowbray | As can many of our resident transphobes apparently. |
Are you EVER going to let this go? Go to bed. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:54 - Jan 5 with 1367 views | WicklowBlue |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:12 - Jan 5 by SpruceMoose | Jeera. After months and months of prodding and sniping, certain posters got the reaction out of him they were hoping for. Bet they couldn't believe their luck. Cue the feigned outrage and red card waving. No idea if he quit or was banned. I'm sure they'll be along en masse to respond to this post in a similar manner shortly. Utterly predictable. They'll move onto another target soon enough. Most likely Stokie - although that one is already well underway. [Post edited 5 Jan 2023 19:13]
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Huh? What happened that I missed? |  | |  |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:55 - Jan 5 with 1363 views | XYZ |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:52 - Jan 5 by blueasfook | Are you EVER going to let this go? Go to bed. |
... says our resident Ukrainian sex-trafficking joke correspondent ... |  | |  |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:57 - Jan 5 with 1357 views | blueasfook |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:54 - Jan 5 by WicklowBlue | Huh? What happened that I missed? |
He said stuff about you. We all stuck up for you, don't worry. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:59 - Jan 5 with 1353 views | blueasfook |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:55 - Jan 5 by XYZ | ... says our resident Ukrainian sex-trafficking joke correspondent ... |
If you say so, bud. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 00:00 - Jan 6 with 1345 views | XYZ |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 23:59 - Jan 5 by blueasfook | If you say so, bud. |
You deny it? |  | |  |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 00:02 - Jan 6 with 1335 views | blueasfook |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 00:00 - Jan 6 by XYZ | You deny it? |
Keep pushing. You'll be the next one enjoying a TWTD break. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 00:03 - Jan 6 with 1326 views | monytowbray |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 00:02 - Jan 6 by blueasfook | Keep pushing. You'll be the next one enjoying a TWTD break. |
I do look forward to TWTD turning into ageing gammon 4chan. |  |
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I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 00:08 - Jan 6 with 1306 views | XYZ |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 00:02 - Jan 6 by blueasfook | Keep pushing. You'll be the next one enjoying a TWTD break. |
The cancel culture club at work. What am I pushing? You made the Ukrainian sex trafficking "joke" - various board luminaries joined in. None of you got banned. |  | |  |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 00:11 - Jan 6 with 1296 views | The_Romford_Blue |
I've been busy today, have I missed much on here? on 19:29 - Jan 5 by clive_baker | That’s a shame, I have a lot of time for Jeera. |
I didn’t actually mind Jeera. We haven’t interacted on here in a couple of years though since he went on an unprovoked attacked at me about being ungrateful about the NHS (not the case, just that I considered suing them for the botched surgery I had in 2015) and called me something like a ‘selfish little f***ing ****’. Which unsurprisingly was removed the next day. No apology though. Which was a shame. Since then I’ve swerved him as it became clear he had quite the temper. If he’s reading this, no hard feelings. |  |
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