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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable 21:31 - May 23 with 4163 viewsSwailsey

Life is hard and sh*t enough as it is. Some people have been going over the top but anyone expressing the slightest bit of hurt about all of this just gets shut down or insulted.

I know my presence on here doesn’t matter, but it’s a safe space for me and it’s just full of such anger, it’s enough to add to the reasons to pack this life in.

Please can people start being kind and allow others to process emotions in their own way, without calling them wet, or soft, or a fake fan.
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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:32 - May 23 with 3553 viewsfooters

No way, dickhead.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:36 - May 23 with 3499 viewsGuthrum

The issue is that a lot of it is coming out as rage - against the club and McKenna in particular. Some of us feel the need to defend them against the worst excesses of that.

There is no reason for name-calling, I agree. But some of the more hysterical stuff does need to be challenged.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:38 - May 23 with 3451 viewsGlasgowBlue

Some of the takes are way over the top though. "Sack him now" "Give him until Monday" "Lost all respect for him".

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Unfortunately there are a small group of posters that.... on 21:40 - May 23 with 3422 viewsBloots

...seem to enjoy it.

It would really help the rest of us if they just argued with each other, but unfortunately they feel the need to try and drag everyone else down to their level.

It's got a lot worse in the last few weeks, we can all see that.

Just try and ignore "the noise" mate, there's still more decent posters than there are idiots thankfully.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:41 - May 23 with 3396 viewsRyorry

Appreciate and understand your point, but I do draw the line at some people publicly disrespecting, misrepresenting, and just downright insulting KM after all he’s done for us. No-one deserves such judgemental comments on the basis of zero evidence or actual insight as to the real situation.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:43 - May 23 with 3371 viewsacj

I think this forum serves as a safe space and a bit of an escape for a lot of us, and for those of us overseas it helps to give us a lifeline to the ITFC community that we'd otherwise be cut off from. Wouldn't want anyone to feel they're losing that.

At the same time, sometimes it feels like people just need to given a bit of a shake so they can come back to their senses. Absolutely barmy how a few have reacted to the speculation around McKenna's future, and if people vent their emotions here by saying some really silly things, then they're probably going to be told how silly they're being.

Like, it feels as though some are angrier at McKenna, who has just given us the best couple of years in decades, than they ever were at the string of managers that oversaw absolute dross as we slumbered our way down to the third tier. He's not even left us yet!

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:50 - May 23 with 3324 viewsSwansea_Blue

The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:38 - May 23 by GlasgowBlue

Some of the takes are way over the top though. "Sack him now" "Give him until Monday" "Lost all respect for him".


Oh FFS, what’s Gav done now? How many chances is Phil going to give him?




Er, we are talking about Gav aren’t we?

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:55 - May 23 with 3267 viewsSwansea_Blue

The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:41 - May 23 by Ryorry

Appreciate and understand your point, but I do draw the line at some people publicly disrespecting, misrepresenting, and just downright insulting KM after all he’s done for us. No-one deserves such judgemental comments on the basis of zero evidence or actual insight as to the real situation.


I highly recommend going on to the ‘General’ side of the board only. It’s made the place useable again, if a little quiet. Quiet’s good though after the spamming of the last few days.

I’m not on other social media - is Twitter and Facebook, etc., as bad as on here? It’s embarrassing. I can’t think of another word to describe it. I’m embarrassed for those losing the plot.

Ne’er known an’thin loik it buh.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:59 - May 23 with 3204 viewsMullet

Phil has made it clear. Once he’s finished counting all his new revenue from this week I’m sure he will have his people ban said people innit.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:02 - May 23 with 3171 viewsLankHenners

Agree really - it's obviously an emotive issue and while there some slightly outlandish and OTT things being said I don't think it's necessary for several people to jump in calling them a bedwetter or whatever.

Not restricted to this forum or to this issue but there's a fair bit of people who assume their position is the correct one and anyone else thinking otherwise needs to be shut down and/or insulted as you say.

As this is an issue which affects everyone I don't think it's really fair to dismiss any fan's opinion on it really, even if their position is a bit extreme.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:07 - May 23 with 3120 viewsRyorry

The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:55 - May 23 by Swansea_Blue

I highly recommend going on to the ‘General’ side of the board only. It’s made the place useable again, if a little quiet. Quiet’s good though after the spamming of the last few days.

I’m not on other social media - is Twitter and Facebook, etc., as bad as on here? It’s embarrassing. I can’t think of another word to describe it. I’m embarrassed for those losing the plot.

Ne’er known an’thin loik it buh.


Thanks, will give that a try!

Haven’t really been on Twitter much since the Husk took over, and deliberately swerved any ITFC content on there over the past few days.

I’m sure he doesn’t need my sympathy, but really feel for KM being tried in this kangaroo court, and being damned by some who have absolutely zero knowledge or actual insight re what’s going on.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:08 - May 23 with 3120 viewsSwansea_Blue

The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:59 - May 23 by Mullet

Phil has made it clear. Once he’s finished counting all his new revenue from this week I’m sure he will have his people ban said people innit.


He’s done well off the back of spreading these rumours. We’ll be moving up in the world from Audis to Ferraris

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:27 - May 23 with 3030 viewsVegtablue

Actually Swailsey, I hold your voice on our forum in high regard! (Hopefully this doesn't cause you to overthink your posts going forward.) We could all benefit with some introspection here I'm sure. One of my pet hates is when posters attack others' intellect / literacy / language proficiency, rather than just engaging with the content of their post. We're all Town fans here aren't we (you included Stowy).
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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:34 - May 23 with 2991 viewsThe_Flashing_Smile

I'm sorry if any of my posting has caused you any angst. We all have sh!t going on in our lives, and we all have different ways of venting. I just don't agree with venting at a man who has given us so many happy times, when we don't actually know any facts. Some seem to have been judge, jury and executioner without anything concrete actually happening, without any official statements (from our club or others), and without the man himself saying anything. Whether there's truth in any of the rumours or not (no-one on here really knows), that seems very harsh to me.

Trust the process. Trust Phil.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:36 - May 23 with 2971 viewsfooters

The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:34 - May 23 by The_Flashing_Smile

I'm sorry if any of my posting has caused you any angst. We all have sh!t going on in our lives, and we all have different ways of venting. I just don't agree with venting at a man who has given us so many happy times, when we don't actually know any facts. Some seem to have been judge, jury and executioner without anything concrete actually happening, without any official statements (from our club or others), and without the man himself saying anything. Whether there's truth in any of the rumours or not (no-one on here really knows), that seems very harsh to me.


More importantly, have you bought any Polyfilla yet?

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:37 - May 23 with 2965 viewsbaxterbasics

When people say stupid or unfounded things about McKenna, they should be called out.

The situation sucks, sure, but that doesn't justify some of the silly reactions.
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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:46 - May 23 with 2913 viewsitfckenty

After this last week we could probably change the team name to Keyboard Warriors FC.

Honestly though i wouldn't take much notice, everyone will have an opinion and it's best to just drown the noise out, but it's quite funny with some comments. It's genuinely like this forum is a 14 year old lad who has his first girlfriend and shes dumping him..
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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:52 - May 23 with 2879 viewsNewcyBlue

The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:36 - May 23 by footers

More importantly, have you bought any Polyfilla yet?


Is that the stuff taxidermists stuff parrots with?!

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:55 - May 23 with 2851 viewsfooters

The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:52 - May 23 by NewcyBlue

Is that the stuff taxidermists stuff parrots with?!


You ought to know all about it, pugwash.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 23:01 - May 23 with 2821 viewsNewcyBlue

The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 22:55 - May 23 by footers

You ought to know all about it, pugwash.

How are things, dear fruit? Life on the seven seas keeping you and yours well?


Aye been worse mate. You keeping well? Thought you would be more on the general side of the forum with the GE coming up!

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 23:04 - May 23 with 2809 viewsBossy

The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 21:36 - May 23 by Guthrum

The issue is that a lot of it is coming out as rage - against the club and McKenna in particular. Some of us feel the need to defend them against the worst excesses of that.

There is no reason for name-calling, I agree. But some of the more hysterical stuff does need to be challenged.


I’m allowed to be annoyed at McKenna and his reps courting at least 3 other teams above us.

I’m a fan, it’s normal for me to be emotional about what happens about the club.

Some people on here are very controlling. Let people feel how they feel for crying out loud.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 23:07 - May 23 with 2781 viewsfooters

The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 23:01 - May 23 by NewcyBlue

Aye been worse mate. You keeping well? Thought you would be more on the general side of the forum with the GE coming up!


Ha! We'll see about that once KM commits to us...

Yeah, not so bad, mate, ta. Trying to keep out of trouble... with limited success.


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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 23:37 - May 23 with 2734 viewsGuthrum

The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 23:04 - May 23 by Bossy

I’m allowed to be annoyed at McKenna and his reps courting at least 3 other teams above us.

I’m a fan, it’s normal for me to be emotional about what happens about the club.

Some people on here are very controlling. Let people feel how they feel for crying out loud.


There's a difference between being annoyed at the thought of McKenna leaving and suggesting things like we should effectively sack him now in case he might.

Or, indeed, reviling and insulting the man who has got the team doubly promoted when we do not yet know the full picture. Seems to me it's McKenna being courted by these clubs, not the other way around.

Emotional is one thing, but some of it is verging on hysteria. Over something which hasn't happened yet and may not. People are going to make themselves ill.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 23:47 - May 23 with 2704 viewsBossy

The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 23:37 - May 23 by Guthrum

There's a difference between being annoyed at the thought of McKenna leaving and suggesting things like we should effectively sack him now in case he might.

Or, indeed, reviling and insulting the man who has got the team doubly promoted when we do not yet know the full picture. Seems to me it's McKenna being courted by these clubs, not the other way around.

Emotional is one thing, but some of it is verging on hysteria. Over something which hasn't happened yet and may not. People are going to make themselves ill.


Life and this forum would be boring if everyone thought the same thing or reacted the same.

Equally it would be insane if the only people not talking about all the leaks and speculation were the town fans.

I quite like that some people are REALLY insulted by the idea of McKenna and his reps swanning around going from club to club. Might not be happening like that but nobody knows.

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The bickering and name calling on here is unbearable on 23:47 - May 23 by Bossy

Life and this forum would be boring if everyone thought the same thing or reacted the same.

Equally it would be insane if the only people not talking about all the leaks and speculation were the town fans.

I quite like that some people are REALLY insulted by the idea of McKenna and his reps swanning around going from club to club. Might not be happening like that but nobody knows.


Well I'm gonna take the moral high ground and belittle you by calling you a div! You're a stupid idiot with a differing opinion to mine!


Of course i don't really think that, I'm just being a silly. I agree, different opinions are what a forum is all abot. We can't all toe the company line.
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