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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying 12:58 - Feb 5 with 6385 viewsGlasgowBlue

If you are a male who has served in HM forces.

Isn't that gender stereotyping? And if people hold such regressive attitudes it can only stop men from speaking out for fear of being labelled weak?

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:02 - Feb 5 with 2460 viewsmonytowbray

Who said this?! I need back story before I go off on one.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:05 - Feb 5 with 2443 views26_Paz

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:02 - Feb 5 by monytowbray

Who said this?! I need back story before I go off on one.


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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:09 - Feb 5 with 2419 viewsGlasgowBlue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:02 - Feb 5 by monytowbray

Who said this?! I need back story before I go off on one.


Does it matter who said it?

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:17 - Feb 5 with 2358 viewsmonytowbray

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:09 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue

Does it matter who said it?


The full context of what you are posting about does matter as I can’t find the statement via Google.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:18 - Feb 5 with 2359 viewsHalf_Idiot

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:09 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue

Does it matter who said it?


Not at all.

We could do with a little context though? What brought this person to say such a stupid thing?
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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:18 - Feb 5 with 2359 viewsHARRY10

Scraping the barrel a bit with this one - you must be getting desperate
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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:23 - Feb 5 with 2332 viewsmonytowbray

Found it. A pretty stupid comment from here that wasn’t well thought out. Bullying in the workplace takes many forms.

But you’ve took liberties assuming it’s a gender thing there. Not to mention Parliament seems to be one massive bullying fest full stop. It’s one of the most toxic work environments I’ve ever witnessed and I’ve had some fairly grim jobs.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:34 - Feb 5 with 2276 viewsGlasgowBlue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:23 - Feb 5 by monytowbray

Found it. A pretty stupid comment from here that wasn’t well thought out. Bullying in the workplace takes many forms.

But you’ve took liberties assuming it’s a gender thing there. Not to mention Parliament seems to be one massive bullying fest full stop. It’s one of the most toxic work environments I’ve ever witnessed and I’ve had some fairly grim jobs.




Surely her comments play into the stereotype that that "hard" men cannot be bullied or vulnerable?

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:36 - Feb 5 with 2259 viewsDarth_Koont

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:09 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue

Does it matter who said it?


Sigh.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:37 - Feb 5 with 2254 viewslowhouseblue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:34 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue



Surely her comments play into the stereotype that that "hard" men cannot be bullied or vulnerable?


but no, but yes, but no, but

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:41 - Feb 5 with 2231 viewsgiant_stow

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:34 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue



Surely her comments play into the stereotype that that "hard" men cannot be bullied or vulnerable?


Pretty silly of her - as if physical bullying is the only way to intimidate or coerce.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:42 - Feb 5 with 2225 viewsHARRY10

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:34 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue



Surely her comments play into the stereotype that that "hard" men cannot be bullied or vulnerable?


or the use of the word 'unlikely' suggests a degree of disbelief by the person making the comment

not a claim of a definite fact

odd (or not) how it is always you right wing loons who distort things to try to defend your prejudice..................

.....................or are aware of the hypocricy of this latest bleat when set against an earlier bleat about an MP sharing a platform with other racists
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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:46 - Feb 5 with 2198 viewsSouperJim

A stupid tweet, but do you not find the timings of the allegations against Bercow at least a little convenient?

Context innit.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:47 - Feb 5 with 2177 viewsGlasgowBlue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:46 - Feb 5 by SouperJim

A stupid tweet, but do you not find the timings of the allegations against Bercow at least a little convenient?

Context innit.


The allegations against Bercow have been doing the rounds for some time.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:52 - Feb 5 with 2152 viewsSouperJim

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:47 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue

The allegations against Bercow have been doing the rounds for some time.


They have, but the formal complaints have only gone in since Corbyn nominated him for a peerage of course.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:52 - Feb 5 with 2145 viewshampstead_blue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:34 - Feb 5 by GlasgowBlue



Surely her comments play into the stereotype that that "hard" men cannot be bullied or vulnerable?


She is something else.

Just look at what you could have won!!! Your next Home Secretary......

To answer the OP, or actually Dumb Abbott's stupid tweet........Lt Gen Leakey is correct and his integrity cannot be questioned.
He would not lie.

Bercow is a disgrace. Gross Misconduct should also mean loss of pension......

Who do you believe? Dumb Abbott or Lt Gen Leakey?

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:54 - Feb 5 with 2137 viewsStokieBlue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:46 - Feb 5 by SouperJim

A stupid tweet, but do you not find the timings of the allegations against Bercow at least a little convenient?

Context innit.


Without opining on the complaints they aren't new, Black Rod first made the accusations as far back as 2014.

Context innit.

SB

Edit: Seen your next post - those were formal submitted complaints in 2014.
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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:56 - Feb 5 with 2123 viewsSouperJim

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:52 - Feb 5 by hampstead_blue

She is something else.

Just look at what you could have won!!! Your next Home Secretary......

To answer the OP, or actually Dumb Abbott's stupid tweet........Lt Gen Leakey is correct and his integrity cannot be questioned.
He would not lie.

Bercow is a disgrace. Gross Misconduct should also mean loss of pension......

Who do you believe? Dumb Abbott or Lt Gen Leakey?


Neither of them. Just seems laughable for the Tories to try and claim the moral high ground at this point when we all know there would never have been any formal complaints if Bercow didn't look like getting in the HoL.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:57 - Feb 5 with 2107 viewsStokieBlue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:56 - Feb 5 by SouperJim

Neither of them. Just seems laughable for the Tories to try and claim the moral high ground at this point when we all know there would never have been any formal complaints if Bercow didn't look like getting in the HoL.


I think you need to check your facts here.

SB
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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:59 - Feb 5 with 2076 viewsSouperJim

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:57 - Feb 5 by StokieBlue

I think you need to check your facts here.

SB
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I don't have a narrative chuck and am presenting the facts as I understand them, feel free to correct me as you have done - I didn't know there had been other formal complaints back in 2014 but the point still stands Would these new ones be happening if Jezza hadn't nominated him? I have my doubts.

Edit: you've now edited your post, don't really know what happened there.
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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:00 - Feb 5 with 2062 viewsDarth_Koont

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:41 - Feb 5 by giant_stow

Pretty silly of her - as if physical bullying is the only way to intimidate or coerce.


I'm not sure a black woman who has received more abuse than anyone else needs that whitemansplained to her.

In fact, I'm guessing her definition of bullying and coercion is a lot more literal and criminal than that of Leakey who could well be talking much more figuratively. It's also about people and a place that she knows more about.

Any possible context or subtleties are missing of course which makes it a poor tweet even in terms of what people could read into it. And the implication/inference that people can't be bullied if they're A, B or C is of course entirely wrong.

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:01 - Feb 5 with 2054 viewsHARRY10

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:52 - Feb 5 by hampstead_blue

She is something else.

Just look at what you could have won!!! Your next Home Secretary......

To answer the OP, or actually Dumb Abbott's stupid tweet........Lt Gen Leakey is correct and his integrity cannot be questioned.
He would not lie.

Bercow is a disgrace. Gross Misconduct should also mean loss of pension......

Who do you believe? Dumb Abbott or Lt Gen Leakey?


you get worse by the hour

one is making claims of bullying

the other is saying that those claims are unlikely if they were directed at someone who was once a General

those two positions are not one of either or
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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:05 - Feb 5 with 2021 viewsStokieBlue

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 13:59 - Feb 5 by SouperJim

I don't have a narrative chuck and am presenting the facts as I understand them, feel free to correct me as you have done - I didn't know there had been other formal complaints back in 2014 but the point still stands Would these new ones be happening if Jezza hadn't nominated him? I have my doubts.

Edit: you've now edited your post, don't really know what happened there.
[Post edited 5 Feb 2020 14:01]


I felt the narrative line was too strong and unfair so I removed it :).

I think you are conflating things - there wouldn't be a "need" for new complaints if he hadn't been nominated. Perhaps given the nomination people felt the need to come forward.

I don't really have an opinion on it as I've not researched it enough. I do know that formal complaints were submitted in 2014 and I listened to a piece on radio 4 this morning with Black Rod.

What does annoy me is how nearly everything on here now boils down to some form of conspiracy, be it media, political or military driven.

SB

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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:09 - Feb 5 with 1996 viewsgiant_stow

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:00 - Feb 5 by Darth_Koont

I'm not sure a black woman who has received more abuse than anyone else needs that whitemansplained to her.

In fact, I'm guessing her definition of bullying and coercion is a lot more literal and criminal than that of Leakey who could well be talking much more figuratively. It's also about people and a place that she knows more about.

Any possible context or subtleties are missing of course which makes it a poor tweet even in terms of what people could read into it. And the implication/inference that people can't be bullied if they're A, B or C is of course entirely wrong.


'whitemanspaining'?!

Nope, just criticising her silly tweet for being silly - this is very simple stuff and my skin colour really is immaterial to that (edit: as is Diane's skin colour by the by).
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Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:11 - Feb 5 with 1983 viewsSouperJim

Apparently you can't be the victim of bullying on 14:05 - Feb 5 by StokieBlue

I felt the narrative line was too strong and unfair so I removed it :).

I think you are conflating things - there wouldn't be a "need" for new complaints if he hadn't been nominated. Perhaps given the nomination people felt the need to come forward.

I don't really have an opinion on it as I've not researched it enough. I do know that formal complaints were submitted in 2014 and I listened to a piece on radio 4 this morning with Black Rod.

What does annoy me is how nearly everything on here now boils down to some form of conspiracy, be it media, political or military driven.

SB


Fair points, what I'm driving at is if this alleged bullying is so reprehensible, the complaints from Lisvane and Leakey should have been made at the time regardless. Not just because he's now potentially in line for a peerage. It just makes it look like a purely political move.

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