At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… 13:02 - Feb 11 with 14048 views | itfcjoe | …think about what they post. But it won’t for who it needs to. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:19 - Feb 11 with 2098 views | mrfixit426 |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 14:35 - Feb 11 by BiGDonnie | Utterly ridiculous. Time for the clown to be booted. He’s an embarrasmwnt to the club, TWTD and mankind. |
He's a sociopath. Absolutely no remorse for anything he does. | | | |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:29 - Feb 11 with 2014 views | pointofblue | I feel uncomfortable about this. I spent most of yesterday disagreeing with Frimmers about his outlook on the game - the performances of Morsy and Burns aside. However, he has always focused on the performance of the players on the pitch. Others have accused players - more past than present - of not caring and just collecting their wage packet, which I would find more hurtful than a perceived downturn in performance being called out. And I would say, with his post, David has been more personal than Frimmers, calling him out on social media and, even inadvertently, encouraging a pile on (not that much encouragement is needed), compared to Frimmers' comments towards Burns on the forum. HOWEVER... I have to admit, Frimmers, you do seem to have an obsessive dislike towards Burns as a player. You're not the only one towards certain players - a couple of posters have it in for Woolfenden, for example (and I will still grovel for my emotional post after the first goal yesterday). But whenever you have the opportunity to have a dig you'll take it, even if the original thread does not relate to him. Not only that, you sometimes make snarky comments toward those who have a different point of view - accusing those who supported him and Morsy yesterday as deeming them as club 'legends' in a disparaging way, as an example. I think that's where many have an issue. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:38 - Feb 11 with 1955 views | Swailsey |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 14:41 - Feb 11 by FrimleyBlue | I wouldn't be shocked they read twtd and it's news stories and phils reports etc. But to come onto a football forum where its a safe place to vent your frustrations about the club you support imo isn't what I'd expect from any footballer or family member. Most of my posts esp those he mentions are made during or after a game. Emotions high etc. And yeah some whilst drinking I'll tone it down.. but compared to the tweeter who personally replied to wes directly.. I think D burns is being harsh in what he says. |
It’s long been known that players and families read this board - has been the case for years, and you’ve been here longer than me. But of course you know this. | |
| Who said: "Colin Healy made Cesc Fabregas look like Colin Healy"? | We miss you TLA |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:38 - Feb 11 with 1937 views | FrimleyBlue |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:03 - Feb 11 by J2BLUE | Why does he need to out himself on here? He's made himself known with his real name. Why do you need to know his TWTD username if he has one? This is yet another tactic just to refuse to apologise. It's fine. At least own it though. |
Because id send them a dm apologising. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:40 - Feb 11 with 1938 views | pointofblue |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:38 - Feb 11 by FrimleyBlue | Because id send them a dm apologising. |
Gentle suggestion that an apology won't carry much weight unless there is a change in style of posting alongside it. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:44 - Feb 11 with 1892 views | FrimleyBlue |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:08 - Feb 11 by Ryorry | No he absolutely does not. You've simply chosen to interpret what he said in the way which suits you, ie is most favourable to yourself. You're being utterly disrespectfu & uncaring to one of our key players & his family. Despicable. |
He's pointed me out within a tweet about a person directly sending messages to wes. Making it appear I've hounded the burns family for 3 years which I haven't. Also. There's is no examples of me disrespecting the family in anyway. I would glady send a dm to who ever to apologise for my posting on twtd forum and shall tone the feelings down in future. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:49 - Feb 11 with 1872 views | NeedhamChris | Now I think Frimleys views on Burns are ridiculous, and he is a great player for us. However... It's fairly clear to anyone reading the board that he gets grief for that opinion. There is part of me that thinks that this is a bit of a ridiculous overreaction. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:51 - Feb 11 with 1853 views | J2BLUE |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:38 - Feb 11 by FrimleyBlue | Because id send them a dm apologising. |
Oh I give up. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:52 - Feb 11 with 1840 views | itfcjoe |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:29 - Feb 11 by pointofblue | I feel uncomfortable about this. I spent most of yesterday disagreeing with Frimmers about his outlook on the game - the performances of Morsy and Burns aside. However, he has always focused on the performance of the players on the pitch. Others have accused players - more past than present - of not caring and just collecting their wage packet, which I would find more hurtful than a perceived downturn in performance being called out. And I would say, with his post, David has been more personal than Frimmers, calling him out on social media and, even inadvertently, encouraging a pile on (not that much encouragement is needed), compared to Frimmers' comments towards Burns on the forum. HOWEVER... I have to admit, Frimmers, you do seem to have an obsessive dislike towards Burns as a player. You're not the only one towards certain players - a couple of posters have it in for Woolfenden, for example (and I will still grovel for my emotional post after the first goal yesterday). But whenever you have the opportunity to have a dig you'll take it, even if the original thread does not relate to him. Not only that, you sometimes make snarky comments toward those who have a different point of view - accusing those who supported him and Morsy yesterday as deeming them as club 'legends' in a disparaging way, as an example. I think that's where many have an issue. |
The issue is perfectly on display in this thread, despite years of people telling him about his style, about the OTT levels at how it is aimed towards one player it has never sunk in. There is now a comment from the member of the family, explicitly naming him and describing what he has been doing for 3 years and how it is seen by them - there is still not an iota of self reflection or understanding of how what he says is seen by literally everyone else. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:02 - Feb 11 with 1725 views | FrimleyBlue |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:52 - Feb 11 by itfcjoe | The issue is perfectly on display in this thread, despite years of people telling him about his style, about the OTT levels at how it is aimed towards one player it has never sunk in. There is now a comment from the member of the family, explicitly naming him and describing what he has been doing for 3 years and how it is seen by them - there is still not an iota of self reflection or understanding of how what he says is seen by literally everyone else. |
You just ignoring me saying I'll tone it down and I'd happily send a dm apologising then. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:04 - Feb 11 with 1715 views | FrimleyBlue |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:49 - Feb 11 by NeedhamChris | Now I think Frimleys views on Burns are ridiculous, and he is a great player for us. However... It's fairly clear to anyone reading the board that he gets grief for that opinion. There is part of me that thinks that this is a bit of a ridiculous overreaction. |
I'm happy to do what I need to do. But I also appreciate twtd response to the accusations put against me. What I'd like to know Is will people follow suit and contact Paul cooks family for their thoughts on him on this forum. Or lambert. Or Jackson. Or anyone else that has had negative comments spoken about on this forum. So I'll leave it there. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:10 - Feb 11 with 1676 views | RobTheMonk |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:52 - Feb 11 by itfcjoe | The issue is perfectly on display in this thread, despite years of people telling him about his style, about the OTT levels at how it is aimed towards one player it has never sunk in. There is now a comment from the member of the family, explicitly naming him and describing what he has been doing for 3 years and how it is seen by them - there is still not an iota of self reflection or understanding of how what he says is seen by literally everyone else. |
And for 3 years they've never decided to put Frimmers on ignore?! Frimmers says he doesn't like Burns more often than not. But then 95% of people disagree. So that's a overwhelmingly positive action in support of Burns... It's a footballing forum. Hot takes are going to be a thing and there's going to be characters who are disagreed with more often than not. If you don't like it, don't read it or put the person on ignore. All that tweet has done is instigate a witch hunt associating a direct tweet with a public discussion, which on first glance people may think that the two are the same person which is not necessarily the case. | | | |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:13 - Feb 11 with 1636 views | Ryorry |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:44 - Feb 11 by FrimleyBlue | He's pointed me out within a tweet about a person directly sending messages to wes. Making it appear I've hounded the burns family for 3 years which I haven't. Also. There's is no examples of me disrespecting the family in anyway. I would glady send a dm to who ever to apologise for my posting on twtd forum and shall tone the feelings down in future. |
Well thanks in advance for your promise to tone it down, but the rest of your post is just you refusing to see it from anyone else's point of view other than your own.' Read David Burns' tweet again, 'bare' - "Take a look at @twtduk and in particular someone who calls himself “frimley blue” ..family have had to live with his relentless and obsessive attacks on Wes for the best part of three years now.. never a good word and first to attack him week in week out.. its soul destroying .😢" He's clearly referring to you posting *on this forum* - which he names - and them having to live with that, because they're his family & close to him. You're actng completely selfishly & disrespectfully over this, and apparently don't care about the well-being of one of our players or his family - which raises the question of how much of a Town 'supporter' you actually are. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:17 - Feb 11 with 1595 views | NeedhamChris |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:10 - Feb 11 by RobTheMonk | And for 3 years they've never decided to put Frimmers on ignore?! Frimmers says he doesn't like Burns more often than not. But then 95% of people disagree. So that's a overwhelmingly positive action in support of Burns... It's a footballing forum. Hot takes are going to be a thing and there's going to be characters who are disagreed with more often than not. If you don't like it, don't read it or put the person on ignore. All that tweet has done is instigate a witch hunt associating a direct tweet with a public discussion, which on first glance people may think that the two are the same person which is not necessarily the case. |
I agree with this. Would be interesting to see the board's reaction had this been anyone but Frimmers. A Paul Lambert relative upset about Badgers constant comments for example. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:18 - Feb 11 with 1578 views | NeedhamChris |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:13 - Feb 11 by Ryorry | Well thanks in advance for your promise to tone it down, but the rest of your post is just you refusing to see it from anyone else's point of view other than your own.' Read David Burns' tweet again, 'bare' - "Take a look at @twtduk and in particular someone who calls himself “frimley blue” ..family have had to live with his relentless and obsessive attacks on Wes for the best part of three years now.. never a good word and first to attack him week in week out.. its soul destroying .😢" He's clearly referring to you posting *on this forum* - which he names - and them having to live with that, because they're his family & close to him. You're actng completely selfishly & disrespectfully over this, and apparently don't care about the well-being of one of our players or his family - which raises the question of how much of a Town 'supporter' you actually are. |
Phil doesn't seem to agree that Frimley has been relentless or obsessive. I agree with Phil. The easy solution here is for David Burns to put him on ignore - but that's not as fashionable an answer. [Post edited 11 Feb 16:21]
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:22 - Feb 11 with 1548 views | Ryorry |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:18 - Feb 11 by NeedhamChris | Phil doesn't seem to agree that Frimley has been relentless or obsessive. I agree with Phil. The easy solution here is for David Burns to put him on ignore - but that's not as fashionable an answer. [Post edited 11 Feb 16:21]
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Where has Phil said that? I've never known Phil, in 25 years now, ever disagree with a large majority of board posters. I hope he'll correct me if I'm wrong. | |
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Frimmers needs banning.... on 16:24 - Feb 11 with 1534 views | blueasfook |
Frimmers needs banning.... on 13:47 - Feb 11 by Bloots | ...purely so that it severely cuts down the number of posts from Dolly and Stokie. Innit. |
Well I always stick up for Frimmers but that's a compelling argument to be fair | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:27 - Feb 11 with 1511 views | Vic | So sad. Frimmers mate, when your posts and messages are having this effect on the players and families of the team you support it’s time to stop. Please do. David - put the bloke on ignore! It’s fantastic and makes this brilliant forum enjoyable again. Wes is a star, I love his heart and attitude; he’s been and is brilliant for us. Don’t let the B-ggers get you down. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:30 - Feb 11 with 1487 views | jasondozzell |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 15:29 - Feb 11 by pointofblue | I feel uncomfortable about this. I spent most of yesterday disagreeing with Frimmers about his outlook on the game - the performances of Morsy and Burns aside. However, he has always focused on the performance of the players on the pitch. Others have accused players - more past than present - of not caring and just collecting their wage packet, which I would find more hurtful than a perceived downturn in performance being called out. And I would say, with his post, David has been more personal than Frimmers, calling him out on social media and, even inadvertently, encouraging a pile on (not that much encouragement is needed), compared to Frimmers' comments towards Burns on the forum. HOWEVER... I have to admit, Frimmers, you do seem to have an obsessive dislike towards Burns as a player. You're not the only one towards certain players - a couple of posters have it in for Woolfenden, for example (and I will still grovel for my emotional post after the first goal yesterday). But whenever you have the opportunity to have a dig you'll take it, even if the original thread does not relate to him. Not only that, you sometimes make snarky comments toward those who have a different point of view - accusing those who supported him and Morsy yesterday as deeming them as club 'legends' in a disparaging way, as an example. I think that's where many have an issue. |
I agree with much of this. We should all try to get along - we're all Town fans. Frimley follows us and he's always been polite in interactions with me even if I have almost always disagreed with him. But we've got to get behind this team - a brilliant season and we can make a difference as we come to the end. | | | |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:36 - Feb 11 with 1435 views | NeedhamChris |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:22 - Feb 11 by Ryorry | Where has Phil said that? I've never known Phil, in 25 years now, ever disagree with a large majority of board posters. I hope he'll correct me if I'm wrong. |
Which personally, is the balanced view here. [Post edited 11 Feb 16:37]
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:39 - Feb 11 with 1405 views | NeedhamChris | For balance
He doesn't see any need for Phil to have a word either. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:39 - Feb 11 with 1402 views | Clapham_Junction | I think a lot of people are clueless about how what they write on the internet affects people, either through not thinking or not caring. Talking about something in a pub or on a WhatsApp chat is very different to publishing it on a public forum like TWTD, Twitter or other social media sites, where other people (and the targets and their families) can read it. I have unfortunately sort of experienced this, having briefly been the target of a Twitter storm and later a related Youtube video. The claims made in both were wrong or misleading, but the worst part was reading through the hundreds of comments, most of which were pretty awful (a lot simply being variants on hating me), and made by people who were utterly clueless about the situation and had just taken the initial stuff at face value. Even though I knew it was untrue/unjustified, it was still a horrible experience. I just don't understand why people would say stuff like that. As Frimley himself says "Why would I say it to his face? That would be cruel." If you wouldn't say it to his face, don't write it down in public ffs. | | | |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:39 - Feb 11 with 1391 views | FrimleyBlue |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:10 - Feb 11 by RobTheMonk | And for 3 years they've never decided to put Frimmers on ignore?! Frimmers says he doesn't like Burns more often than not. But then 95% of people disagree. So that's a overwhelmingly positive action in support of Burns... It's a footballing forum. Hot takes are going to be a thing and there's going to be characters who are disagreed with more often than not. If you don't like it, don't read it or put the person on ignore. All that tweet has done is instigate a witch hunt associating a direct tweet with a public discussion, which on first glance people may think that the two are the same person which is not necessarily the case. |
Thank you. I've already had messages telling me it's not right to be sending the burns family messages. It's gone way to far. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:40 - Feb 11 with 1379 views | NeedhamChris |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:39 - Feb 11 by FrimleyBlue | Thank you. I've already had messages telling me it's not right to be sending the burns family messages. It's gone way to far. |
Agree. I'd hope there's agreement on here that you're definitely not doing that. | |
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At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:43 - Feb 11 with 1344 views | FrimleyBlue |
At least the rest of the board agree with this, it might make some people… on 16:13 - Feb 11 by Ryorry | Well thanks in advance for your promise to tone it down, but the rest of your post is just you refusing to see it from anyone else's point of view other than your own.' Read David Burns' tweet again, 'bare' - "Take a look at @twtduk and in particular someone who calls himself “frimley blue” ..family have had to live with his relentless and obsessive attacks on Wes for the best part of three years now.. never a good word and first to attack him week in week out.. its soul destroying .😢" He's clearly referring to you posting *on this forum* - which he names - and them having to live with that, because they're his family & close to him. You're actng completely selfishly & disrespectfully over this, and apparently don't care about the well-being of one of our players or his family - which raises the question of how much of a Town 'supporter' you actually are. |
No I'm not. I'm getting messages sent to me on various sites now because of his tweet. He mentions hiding behind a keyboard but there are plenty who know who I am and I've never covered it up so now it's become personal targeted campaign compared to a poster on a forum ranting about game performance. So yeah cheers. [Post edited 11 Feb 16:46]
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