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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' 15:57 - Jun 4 with 3309 viewsFixed_It

Apparently that is the term Stonewall want employers to use.
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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:35 - Jun 4 with 1202 viewsWD19

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:07 - Jun 4 by JammyDodgerrr

Maybe before shifting the terms, they should work towards given Fathers better Paternity leave. Two weeks is just not enough.


My company has equalised parental leave across Men and Women.
Still got pelters because some of the policies mentioned the phrase 'maternity' and 'paternity' and were there 'not inclusive'.
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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:36 - Jun 4 with 1201 viewsHerbivore

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:33 - Jun 4 by footers

That seems to be the idea. But, as Herb says, it's an LGBTQ pressure group pushing for something that's likely never going to happen - but it just gives the red tops something to get all po-faced over for a couple of days before everyone forgets it ever happened.


It's just more culture war nonsense. This has come out because of a freedom of information request from the Telegraph, they are actively looking for ammunition to fight the culture war that their Tory masters are so keen to perpetuate. It's tabloid crap from what was once, in the distant past, a publication considered part of the quality press.

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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:38 - Jun 4 with 1184 viewsfooters

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:36 - Jun 4 by Herbivore

It's just more culture war nonsense. This has come out because of a freedom of information request from the Telegraph, they are actively looking for ammunition to fight the culture war that their Tory masters are so keen to perpetuate. It's tabloid crap from what was once, in the distant past, a publication considered part of the quality press.


A FoI request for that, really?! Jesus. They really are scraping the barrel now. Sad really because it did used to be a decent paper with some quality journalism. Nowadays, hmmm.

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Top bitch shagger (n/t) on 16:39 - Jun 4 with 1176 viewsBloots

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:06 - Jun 4 by pointofblue

Makes sense. More intrigued about how they’re planning to replace the word “Father”.



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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:39 - Jun 4 with 1164 viewslowhouseblue

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:29 - Jun 4 by factual_blue

Like most charities/pressure groups etc, Stonewall most of all want to get their name out there.

They've just done that.


they're on quite a run. the ehrc and acas dumping their diversity champion scheme got them lots of coverage as well.

this is an interview with one of their founders (you may not like the publication but the person being interviewed deserves a bit of respect):

https://www.spiked-online.com/2021/06/04/stonewall-now-represents-intolerance/

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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:39 - Jun 4 with 1172 viewsHerbivore

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:38 - Jun 4 by footers

A FoI request for that, really?! Jesus. They really are scraping the barrel now. Sad really because it did used to be a decent paper with some quality journalism. Nowadays, hmmm.


You employ Boris Johnson for long enough and it drags down the quality and integrity of everything in his orbit.

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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:41 - Jun 4 with 1165 viewsgiant_stow

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:33 - Jun 4 by footers

That seems to be the idea. But, as Herb says, it's an LGBTQ pressure group pushing for something that's likely never going to happen - but it just gives the red tops something to get all po-faced over for a couple of days before everyone forgets it ever happened.


Fair enough on the red tops / publicity thing. Just seems bizarre to pretend that a person wasn't a mother when she gave birth. Almost like rewriting a personal history.

Anyway, like others have said, not really my problem. Although 6 months ago I did discover that the person who was my neice is now my nephew, so I have a lot to learn.

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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:43 - Jun 4 with 1151 viewsfooters

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:41 - Jun 4 by giant_stow

Fair enough on the red tops / publicity thing. Just seems bizarre to pretend that a person wasn't a mother when she gave birth. Almost like rewriting a personal history.

Anyway, like others have said, not really my problem. Although 6 months ago I did discover that the person who was my neice is now my nephew, so I have a lot to learn.


It's a tricky one for sure, but suppose I may be a bit ahead of the curve as my aunt started transitioning about 15 years back and I've been fortunate enough to talk to enough trans people about their experiences over the years. Obviously not everyone is exposed to that so it can seem like lunacy from the outside looking in.

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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:48 - Jun 4 with 1133 viewsgiant_stow

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:43 - Jun 4 by footers

It's a tricky one for sure, but suppose I may be a bit ahead of the curve as my aunt started transitioning about 15 years back and I've been fortunate enough to talk to enough trans people about their experiences over the years. Obviously not everyone is exposed to that so it can seem like lunacy from the outside looking in.


That's a while back for sure - I guess you've had time to get used to things.

Its a steep curve. Its early days in my family's case, but so far, I've only misued the old name or pronuoun a couple of times, not out of malice - just pure habbit. Not helped that instead of calling him 'Lucy' before, we all called him 'Luce' - just trips off the tongue. Luckily he's forgiving and realises it'll take time.
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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 17:03 - Jun 4 with 1105 viewsDurovigutum

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:43 - Jun 4 by footers

It's a tricky one for sure, but suppose I may be a bit ahead of the curve as my aunt started transitioning about 15 years back and I've been fortunate enough to talk to enough trans people about their experiences over the years. Obviously not everyone is exposed to that so it can seem like lunacy from the outside looking in.


I've worked with, socialised with, have as friends and had in my family many LGB. I can "empathise" with them and don't "understand" the hatred some people feel, in the same way as I don't "understand" anti-Semitism (or anti-Muslim, anti-christian, anti-atheist) sentiment.

I've worked with someone who transitioned for about nine months - she was brilliant at her job, and that's all that mattered in that circumstance. I couldn't empathise or "connect" with her at a personal level however. This didn't cause a problem, but it was an observation that I took away with me.

I do have a problem with LGB and T being together and fear that the T part is in danger of rolling back LGB rights as it seems to increasingly be people with a penis telling women (including LB) what to do. Let me in your same sex changing room, let me apply for a women only job, let me in your sport, let me cancel you JK Rowling style if you dare have another position. Fine, if you've transitioned that's great, I support you then (except in some sports) but this "pay £5 for a certificate" suggestion makes me really uneasy. I do a lot of safeguarding work and it really opens up avenues for nefarious activity, which will only damage the T cause further.
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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 17:07 - Jun 4 with 1102 viewsSpruceMoose

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:25 - Jun 4 by Herbivore

In what way does it impact you? It's telling that the right wing press seem to have jumped on it to try and whip up outrage when in reality it's a bit of a non-story isn't it? LGBTQ organisation suggests employers use LGBTQ-friendly language. Not really much to see here, is there?


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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 17:17 - Jun 4 with 1092 viewsFtnfwest

Well rather than kneel, as that’s been done, I presume we’ll all have to adopt the birthing position to show our support for the proposal
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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 17:18 - Jun 4 with 1082 viewsleitrimblue

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:25 - Jun 4 by ArnoldMoorhen

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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 17:23 - Jun 4 with 1067 viewsArnoldMoorhen

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:25 - Jun 4 by Herbivore

In what way does it impact you? It's telling that the right wing press seem to have jumped on it to try and whip up outrage when in reality it's a bit of a non-story isn't it? LGBTQ organisation suggests employers use LGBTQ-friendly language. Not really much to see here, is there?


What is LGBTQ+ friendly about drawing attention to the lack of womb of trans women? It highlights the biological differences that still remain following reassignment surgery.

And what is LGBTQ+ unfriendly about the word mother?
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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 17:25 - Jun 4 with 1065 viewsBlueBadger

It hurts literally no-one. Meh.

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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 17:29 - Jun 4 with 1036 viewsHerbivore

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 17:23 - Jun 4 by ArnoldMoorhen

What is LGBTQ+ friendly about drawing attention to the lack of womb of trans women? It highlights the biological differences that still remain following reassignment surgery.

And what is LGBTQ+ unfriendly about the word mother?


Ask Stonewall, it's their fight. I think your first point misses the mark though, and the second one I'd imagine the issue is that it's a very gendered term.
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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 17:30 - Jun 4 with 1037 viewsSpruceMoose

Is there an actual link to this story btw?

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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 18:07 - Jun 4 with 986 viewsEwan_Oozami

They'll have to change a lot of Prince's back catalogue in that case....

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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 19:14 - Jun 4 with 940 viewsronnyd

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:06 - Jun 4 by pointofblue

Makes sense. More intrigued about how they’re planning to replace the word “Father”.


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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 20:26 - Jun 4 with 915 viewsBlueandTruesince82

We've just had this at work.

We now have child bearing parent and non child bearing parent.


I don't see why you can't just have parent 1 and parent 2 please ask for more paper if you need additional parents

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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 20:47 - Jun 4 with 912 viewsTrequartista

If you think this nonsense is just confined to what Stonewall might want, think again.

https://www.oxfordmail.co.uk/news/19338742.pregnant-people-covid-vaccine-study-o

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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 20:51 - Jun 4 with 897 viewsjeera

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 17:17 - Jun 4 by Ftnfwest

Well rather than kneel, as that’s been done, I presume we’ll all have to adopt the birthing position to show our support for the proposal


Which one do you have in mind exactly?

Would there be stirrups involved?

It could still be kneeling, only forwards.

What about in water? Would there be someone there with a little net?

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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 20:51 - Jun 4 with 898 viewsDanTheMan

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 20:47 - Jun 4 by Trequartista

If you think this nonsense is just confined to what Stonewall might want, think again.

https://www.oxfordmail.co.uk/news/19338742.pregnant-people-covid-vaccine-study-o


Is that the story you meant to link?

EDIT: Wait, are you genuinely annoyed they refer to "Pregnant people" in the article?
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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 20:53 - Jun 4 with 892 viewsfooters

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 20:47 - Jun 4 by Trequartista

If you think this nonsense is just confined to what Stonewall might want, think again.

https://www.oxfordmail.co.uk/news/19338742.pregnant-people-covid-vaccine-study-o


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'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 21:02 - Jun 4 with 879 viewsSwansea_Blue

'Person who has given birth' instead of 'mother' on 16:06 - Jun 4 by pointofblue

Makes sense. More intrigued about how they’re planning to replace the word “Father”.


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