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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... 10:55 - Jul 30 with 4356 viewsDebsyAngel

Feeling pretty down about my birthday tomorrow - 50 for goodness sakes. Always feel a bit low in the week leading up to it every year for some reason, but this year seems to be worse because of the milestone.

I really wanted a huge party in a pub with all my friends/family - but that idea of course got shelved because of this rotten covid. Feel that thing has destroyed any plan I have made in my life now, and it will never go away as we all know, so the good times I cannot see returning.

I have close family round tomorrow afternoon and hoping the weather will be at least dry, as want to sit outside - too scared to have 6 of us all in one small room. Despite them all being fully vaccinated, I still feel terrified I will catch the virus or my Dad will.

I should be feeling happy - got lots of presents and cards accumulating over the last couple of weeks to open - so hope my mood improves, but think there will be a lot of tears shed too!
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 14:02 - Jul 30 with 1697 viewsDebsyAngel

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 13:22 - Jul 30 by PhilTWTD

Happy birthday. 50 isn't too bad, honestly!


Thank you Phil! x
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 14:04 - Jul 30 with 1691 viewsDebsyAngel

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 13:30 - Jul 30 by hoppy

Happy birthday for tomorrow. Hope you enjoy what you have planned.

We had multiple disappointments on the milestone birthday front last year due to Covid/lockdown etc.
My Dad was 80 last March, KJ was 40 in September and I was 50 in December, so we didn't get to have the big party we'd planned for our two birthdays, and we weren't even able to be with my Dad for his 80th!


Thanks Hoppy.

My Dad is 80 in a couple of weeks - I hope we can at least see him and my Mum on the day. It's sad that you all missed out last year. Would have thought now we would all be safe enough to get together for big parties - but sadly that is not the case. I just hope that some day it will come true. I cannot wait forever.... "next year" then becomes the year after, the year after and so on.
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 14:25 - Jul 30 with 1664 viewsEly_Blue

Happy Birthday, as a recent half centenarian last year just before lockdown I will tell you 2 things, it’s only a number and 50 is definitely the new 40.

In all honesty my view is it’s what you make of it, if you want to wallow in being 50 and thinking of yourself as old and over the hill etc then that’s what will happen.

Keep your chin up, it will all be ok, I promise

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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 15:29 - Jul 30 with 1661 viewsfactual_blue

Tomorrow myself and The Clan Factual will be gathering and celebrating the 100th birthday of the late Uncle Factual.

RIP eight years ago.

And in any event, life begins at sixty.

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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 15:31 - Jul 30 with 1657 viewsDebsyAngel

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 15:29 - Jul 30 by factual_blue

Tomorrow myself and The Clan Factual will be gathering and celebrating the 100th birthday of the late Uncle Factual.

RIP eight years ago.

And in any event, life begins at sixty.


Hope your celebrations go well - I will raise a cup of tea to your late uncle!
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 15:43 - Jul 30 with 1648 viewsRyorry

You're very lucky to have close family who you enjoy good relationships with Debsy, treasure them, and Happy Birthday for tomorrow - please have an extra, virtual, Stella on me, cheers
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 16:25 - Jul 30 with 1612 viewsDebsyAngel

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 15:43 - Jul 30 by Ryorry

You're very lucky to have close family who you enjoy good relationships with Debsy, treasure them, and Happy Birthday for tomorrow - please have an extra, virtual, Stella on me, cheers
[Post edited 30 Jul 2021 15:47]


Thank you Ryorry - I will enjoy that virtual Stella immensely! xx
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 17:18 - Jul 30 with 1594 viewsRyorry

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 16:25 - Jul 30 by DebsyAngel

Thank you Ryorry - I will enjoy that virtual Stella immensely! xx


I know this'll sound weird, but since becoming allergic to various foods incl alcohol donks' years ago, I've dreamed about drinking beer a few times - and it tasted just as good as in irl! 😂

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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 17:26 - Jul 30 with 1588 viewsBent_double

Happy Birthday for tomorrow!

Seems like there are a few of us hitting the big 5-0 this year, obviously 1971 was a great vintage!

Like you, I dreaded the build-up to my 50th a couple of months ago - especially with a soon-to-be 18yr old son constantly reminding me of my age, but the day came and went, and like others have said, it's just a number, you don't feel any different to being 49.

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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 17:34 - Jul 30 with 1578 viewsMattinLondon

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 13:22 - Jul 30 by PhilTWTD

Happy birthday. 50 isn't too bad, honestly!


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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 17:37 - Jul 30 with 1573 viewsDebsyAngel

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 17:26 - Jul 30 by Bent_double

Happy Birthday for tomorrow!

Seems like there are a few of us hitting the big 5-0 this year, obviously 1971 was a great vintage!

Like you, I dreaded the build-up to my 50th a couple of months ago - especially with a soon-to-be 18yr old son constantly reminding me of my age, but the day came and went, and like others have said, it's just a number, you don't feel any different to being 49.


Belated 50th birthday greetings to you! And thank you!
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 17:38 - Jul 30 with 1572 viewsDebsyAngel

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 17:18 - Jul 30 by Ryorry

I know this'll sound weird, but since becoming allergic to various foods incl alcohol donks' years ago, I've dreamed about drinking beer a few times - and it tasted just as good as in irl! 😂


And dreaming of it means no hangover to suffer afterwards!!
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 17:40 - Jul 30 with 1570 viewsfactual_blue

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 13:22 - Jul 30 by PhilTWTD

Happy birthday. 50 isn't too bad, honestly!


Hah! Like you can remember 50,


(I can. It was the year the Guild of Corpus Christi in Lavenham was closed down by Royal Decree.)

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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:17 - Jul 30 with 1543 viewsWarkystache

Happy 50th Debs!!!!!!

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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:24 - Jul 30 with 1531 viewsfergalsharkey

I'm in exactly the same boat mas you except i will be 50 later this month.

Low mood, no party, no holiday.

Just feel looow.

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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:26 - Jul 30 with 1535 viewsYou_Bloo_Right

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 17:40 - Jul 30 by factual_blue

Hah! Like you can remember 50,


(I can. It was the year the Guild of Corpus Christi in Lavenham was closed down by Royal Decree.)


Reformation? So 1540 say (or twenty to four)?

Sorry Debs, forgot to add, Happy Birthday for tomorrow. And 50? Pah! Whippersnapper.
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:28 - Jul 30 with 1532 viewsDebsyAngel

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:17 - Jul 30 by Warkystache

Happy 50th Debs!!!!!!


Thanks Warky xx
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:30 - Jul 30 with 1530 viewsDebsyAngel

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:24 - Jul 30 by fergalsharkey

I'm in exactly the same boat mas you except i will be 50 later this month.

Low mood, no party, no holiday.

Just feel looow.


I know how you feel - I feel really low, as explained in my original post. I hope you can manage to have a nicer day that you are expecting. i will try my best to, that's all I can do.
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:40 - Jul 30 with 1526 viewsfactual_blue

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:26 - Jul 30 by You_Bloo_Right

Reformation? So 1540 say (or twenty to four)?

Sorry Debs, forgot to add, Happy Birthday for tomorrow. And 50? Pah! Whippersnapper.
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The Guild (and indeed all religious guilds) was shut down by the young Edward VI in 1547 shortly after his succession. The Reformation was initially a set of political manoeuvres by Henry VIII in his quest for a divorce - The King's Great Matter.

It was only with the accession of his son, raised as a very zealous Protestant, that doctrinal differences began to emerge between the Church of England and the Roman Church.

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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:42 - Jul 30 with 1525 viewsKeno

50!!

Crumbs, my word you dont look at over 30!!

Happy Birthday Debsy, I'm sure your family will make it special day and just think by the time you are 51 Town will be back in the Championship!!

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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:58 - Jul 30 with 1518 viewsDebsyAngel

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:26 - Jul 30 by You_Bloo_Right

Reformation? So 1540 say (or twenty to four)?

Sorry Debs, forgot to add, Happy Birthday for tomorrow. And 50? Pah! Whippersnapper.
[Post edited 30 Jul 2021 18:32]


Whippersnapper?!! Never been called that before! Thanks!
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 19:00 - Jul 30 with 1513 viewsDebsyAngel

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 18:42 - Jul 30 by Keno

50!!

Crumbs, my word you dont look at over 30!!

Happy Birthday Debsy, I'm sure your family will make it special day and just think by the time you are 51 Town will be back in the Championship!!


That's one way to look at it!

A lot of people think I look like I am in my 30s but I have never believed them - I do try to look after myself so hope it is paying off!!

Funny when you are young, you try to look older to get into places, and when you are older, you try to look younger!

Thanks Keno!!
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 19:59 - Jul 30 with 1479 viewsJonBlue

Happy Birthday, Debsy. I turned fifty a few months back myself and in reality it doesn't make any difference, it's just a number. Although being the big 5-0 does mean being eligible for the booster come autumn...
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 21:01 - Jul 30 with 1462 viewsDebsyAngel

Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 19:59 - Jul 30 by JonBlue

Happy Birthday, Debsy. I turned fifty a few months back myself and in reality it doesn't make any difference, it's just a number. Although being the big 5-0 does mean being eligible for the booster come autumn...


Thanks JonBlue! I am up for the booster as I have asthma and other illnesses, but hoping it is not going to be done at the same time as the flu one - it will absolutely floor me. I have already got my flu jab booked in at Boots in October and the only mention of other jabs is to leave at least a 2 week gap...
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Last time I will be on here in my 40s.... on 21:09 - Jul 30 with 1455 viewsOldsmoker

Happy Birthday Debsy.
50's only half-way.
Here's a frightening thought - at my age I consider you a babe.

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